One of the tragedies of our time is how young men have been taught that their masculinity is toxic.

We’re constantly bombarded with the message that traditional masculine virtues are somehow dangerous.

But nothing could be further from the truth.

In this video, I dig into why we need strong, responsible men in our society and how the toxic masculinity narrative is leaving boys without the role models they desperately need.

I’ll break down why fathers are essential for healthy children, how men have shaped the world we live in, and why it’s time we start appreciating men’s contributions instead of undermining them.

If you’ve ever felt aimless or discouraged, this video is for you. It’s time to rethink what we’re telling boys about what it means to be a man.

Timestamps:

* (00:00) Intro

* (01:16) Men are under-appreciated

* (05:10) The crisis of fatherlessness

* (10:32) The crisis of boys and men

Woke culture isn't just some passing trend or a punchline about purple-haired activists.

It's a dangerous ideology that's infiltrating everything-our schools, universities, corporations, and governments.

If we don't wake up to what's really going on, the values that built Western society are at risk of being completely torn apart.

In this video, we're going to take a deep dive into where wokeism came from, tracing it back to Marxism, postmodernism, and other critical theories that laid the foundation for the chaos we see today.

We'll explore how ideas like "diversity, equity, and inclusion" aren't as harmless as they sound, and how these woke doctrines are used to manipulate us into silence.

More importantly, we'll talk about what we're fighting for-the values that made the West great: reason, individual freedom, and a belief in objective truth.

If you're ready to really understand the woke mind virus and how to stand up to it, then let's dive in.

* (00:00) Intro

* (02:58) The Current Woke Narrative

* (04:27) Marxism

* (07:17) Socialism

* (10:08) The tragedies of Soviet Union and Mao's China

* (12:39) Communism

* (14:46) Post-modernism

* (23:31) Critical Race Theory

* (26:13) Radical Feminism

* (27:46) Red-pill is a backlash against radical feminism

* (28:46) Post-colonialism

* (33:45) Queer Theory

* (38:08) Modern Wokeism

* (39:30) All movies are woke now

* (47:16) DEI: Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion

* (53:52) The Western Legacy

* (58:18) The youth are taught to HATE Western culture

Understanding your personality is one of the most important steps in building a life that aligns with who you are.

When you understand your strengths, you can lean into them and create a life that feels more effortless and fulfilling.

At the same time, becoming aware of your blind spots helps you avoid repeating the same mistakes and consciously develop weaker areas.

This video dives into the Big Five personality traits—extroversion, agreeableness, neuroticism, conscientiousness, and openness—offering a deep look at how these traits shape your life.

We explore the neurological and evolutionary basis of each trait and discuss how understanding where you fall on these spectrums can help you thrive.

You’ll learn why extroverts seek stimulation from social interactions while introverts prefer solitude, and why people high in agreeableness are empathetic but may struggle with boundaries.

We also look at how neuroticism is tied to emotional reactivity, why conscientiousness predicts success, and how openness drives creativity and exploration.

Whether you’re highly extroverted or deeply introverted, emotionally stable or prone to stress, understanding your personality can help you design a life that works for you.

If you’re curious to explore your own personality and develop both your strengths and weaknesses, this video is for you.

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Timestamps

00:00 Why it’s important to know your personality

04:52 Extraversion

12:14 Agreeableness

21:31 Neuroticism

29:43 Conscientiousness

39:53 Openness

51:23 Let me help you understand yourself

Are you tired of the chaos in today’s dating world?

You’re not alone.

Everyone seems to be complaining about modern dating, but what’s really going on?

In this video, we’ll break down the psychology behind why dating feels like a mess—and more importantly, what you can do about it.

We’ll explore five key reasons that are shaping modern dating, from the negative messaging around marriage to the normalization of hookup culture and the toxic dynamics of dating apps.

If you’ve been navigating the challenges of finding meaningful connection, this video will help you cut through the noise and reclaim your dating life. Key points covered:

* The negative messaging around marriage and monogamy.

* How we’ve forgotten what dating is really for.

* The harmful impact of hookup culture.

* The pathology of dating apps.

* The antagonism between the sexes.

Stick around for practical tips and insights that’ll help you find the love you’ve been looking for. Let’s take the dating culture back.

Timestamps00:00 Intro 02:53 The 5 reasons dating is a mess 03:08 (1) Negative messaging around marriage 12:20 (2) We've forgotten what dating is for 18:10 (3) Hookup culture 29:28 (4) Dating apps 43:38 (5) Antagonism between the sexes 57:57 The answer: positive masculinity & femininity

Join me for an in-depth interview with Suzanne Venker as we explore her latest book 'How to Build a Better Life.' We discuss the pitfalls of modern dating, the essential role of motherhood, and why a fulfilling life often means going against the grain. Suzanne shares her insights on why women shouldn’t chase men, the importance of dating with purpose, and why careers might not be the ultimate path to happiness.We also tackle the controversial topic of casual sex and delve into the fundamental differences between men and women. This episode is packed with wisdom for anyone looking to redefine what it means to live a successful life! 🚀💫

In today's episode, I spoke with Nir Boms, a research fellow of the Moshe Dayan Center specializing in Middle Eastern policy and counter-terrorism.

We spoke about:

* The tragic events of October 7th

* The Abraham Accords & progress with Saudi Arabia

* Iran's role in instigating terrorism

* Deradicalization of Palestinians

* The Jewish legacy of hope and praying for peace

* A hopeful vision for a peaceful Middle East

In today's episode, I spoke with Helen Joyce, journalist and author of 'Trans: When Ideology Meets Reality'.

We dove into the transgender debate, uncovering key elements of the trans ideology and the harmful effects of gender affirmative care.

Here are some key points we discussed:

1. Gender identity vs. biological sex: What each means and why they're not the same.

2. Origin of the term 'gender': Exploring where the term came from, why it's useful, and where it allows us to distort our biological reality.

3. Paradox of gender stereotypes: How trans individuals embody stereotypes while claiming gender isn't binary.

4. Abstract vs. concrete: The Jungian idea that it is dangerous to turn what is symbolic into the concrete.

5. Gender clinics: The harmful practices of gender specialists and the slippery slope of puberty blockers, hormones, and invasive surgeries.

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6. Parents are terrorized: Parents are told that their child will commit suicide if the parent does not affirm their child's preferred genders.

7. Types of transgender: Exploring androphilia and autogynephilia among men, and rapid-onset gender dysphoria and social contagion among teenage girls.

8. Social media's effect on girls: Platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and Tumblr are spreading trans ideology to vulnerable teenage girls. *

9. Fan Fiction Trend: The new trend of erotic fan fiction written by teenage girls for teenage girls, with romantic love stories between male characters from popular books (think a romance story between Draco Malfoy and Harry Potter!)

10. Trans rights vs. women's rights: Men identifying as trans women are impinging on women's sports and endangering women in prisons.

Let me know your thoughts in the comments below 💭

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This episode was recorded on February 22nd, 2024.

In today's episode, I dive deep into the fascinating world of Internal Family Systems (IFS) with returning guest Seth Allison.

We explore Richard Schwartz's groundbreaking book "No Bad Parts," tracing the history and development of IFS, particularly its origins with eating disordered patients, and the paradigm shift it introduces away from a mono-mind approach.

We delve into the core components of IFS, exploring the distinct roles of Exiles, Firefighters, and Protectors. According to IFS - there are no bad parts, only bad roles. To make it more personal, I share my initial encounter with IFS and the profound impact it had on me.

Join me as Seth Allison guides me through an insightful IFS session, as I meet and interact with an internal Protector.

If you're curious about unlocking the mysteries of your inner world and understanding the dynamics of Internal Family Systems, this episode is a must-watch! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below. Let's embark on this journey of self-discovery together!

In today's episode, I spoke with Bettina Arndt, delving into the often-overlooked issue of an anti-male culture shaped by evolving feminist dynamics since the 1960s.

* Anti-Men Culture: Explore how empowering women inadvertently led to an anti-male philosophy, leaving some men feeling powerless in a system stacked against them.

* Sex in Marriage: Drawing from her book "Sex Diaries", Bettina shared the secrets of couples who maintain vital sex lives, and the more frequent issue of sex-starved husbands and the emotional toll.

* Toxic Femininity: We spoke about Bettina's popular "Politics of Cleavage" video, where she discusses the power of female sexuality, and how women should use this power wisely - instead of making men feel like creeps.

Share your thoughts in the comments below and continue the conversation. I love hearing from you! 💬

Bettina Arndt is a rare public voice speaking on behalf of men – and the women who love them. This respected social commentator is renowned for tackling unmentionable topics. A former clinical psychologist and one of Australia’s first sex therapists, she first became well-known for breaking down taboos about talking about sex. She now writes an influential blog on Substack denouncing feminism and advocating for men’s rights, as well as providing support for falsely accused men on campuses and elsewhere.

For more of Bettina’s work:

* Sex Diaries: Why Women Go Off Sex and Other Bedroom Battles

* #MenToo

* Bettina's Substack

In today's episode, I spoke with Leonard Sax about his book 'Boys Adrift: The Five Factors Driving the Growing Epidemic of Unmotivated Boys and Underachieving Young Men'.

Leonard Sax is an American psychologist and a practicing family physician. He is best known as the author of four books for parents: Boys Adrift, Girls on the Edge, Why Gender Matters, and the Collapse of Parenting.

Highlights

* 00:00 Intro

* 6:52 Factor 1: Schools

* 23:27 Motivation & Personality

* 33:52 Factor 2: Video Games

* 41:40 Roni's World of Warcraft Days

* 53:07 Factor 3: ADHD Meds

* 1:06:44 Factor 4: Endocrine Disruptors

* 1:13:37 Factor 5: Male Role Models

* 1:21:32 Don't Let Toxic Pop Culture Raise Your Children

* 1:23:55 Where You Can Find Leonard's Work