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In this episode, my dad and I reflect on growing up in two very different worlds— his analog Gen X upbringing vs my digital Nigerian-American life. 

We talk dating then vs now, his reaction to me walking away from med school, and what it means to parent across cultures. He also drops timeless wisdom that goes beyond generations.

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For the first time ever, I sat down with my dad to talk about my struggle with weed addiction. I wanted to know—did he know? Did he ever suspect? And what was it like for him, watching me go through life while secretly battling something I couldn’t talk about?

The conversation takes an unexpected turn when Papa Duru shares his own experimentation with marijuana after immigrating to America from Nigeria—a story he'd never told his daughter before this recording. 

His vivid description of cultural shock moving from a Nigerian village where drug use was heavily stigmatized to New York during the crack epidemic provides crucial context for understanding immigrant perspectives on substance use.

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In this episode, I talk about how I got addicted to w*ed in college, the mental and emotional spiral that came with it, and what healing looked like for me.

And if you’ve ever felt like something had a hold on you, maybe this one’s for you, too.

If you’d like to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, you can right now.
Confess your sins and ask for forgiveness
Decide in your heart to turn away from living a life not pleasing to God
Acknowledge the sacrifice Jesus made for you - that he died, resurrected, and is alive today.

Accept Him as your Lord and Savior
Ask to receive the power of the Holy Spirit to transform you from the inside out and that he will rule and reign in your heart

Resources for understanding the Gospel of Jesus video - https://youtu.be/xQkyuyE0vQk?si=Ds3sUNxfa36CY2lo 
(disclaimer: I am not affiliated with this ministry at all, just a good explanation of the gospel!)

Resources for mental health: https://www.cdc.gov/mental-health/caring/index.html

Find a therapist - 
https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us

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For a long time, I didn’t think I had a problem. 
Marijuana was just something I used to relax… a little something something once in a while, you know. Until it became a full-on 8-year addiction.

In this episode, I talk about how I got addicted to maryjanes in college, the mental and emotional spiral that came with it, and what healing looked like for me.

This isn’t about judgment — it’s about honesty and reevaluating our relationship with drugs. 

And if you’ve ever felt like something had a hold on you, maybe this one’s for you, too.

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This evolution from doing things "for the plot" to recognizing my own value reflects the natural maturation process so many of us experience as we navigate our twenties.

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Have you ever stood at a crossroads, knowing your next step would forever alter the course of your life? That's exactly where I found myself as a junior in college—a biology major with a meticulously planned future in medicine suddenly questioning everything about my path.

This episode dives deep into one of the most pivotal decisions I've ever made: walking away from medical school to pursue content creation full-time. It wasn't just choosing between two careers—it was choosing between security and uncertainty, between meeting expectations and following an inner knowing that wouldn't stay quiet.

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Friendship breakups hit differently than romantic ones, yet we rarely discuss the genuine grief that comes when someone who picked you up after every heartbreak is suddenly gone from your life. Whether it's an intentional separation, a natural drifting apart, or the painful experience of being "quiet quit" on without explanation, these endings leave their mark. 

Remember, we don't have unlimited access to people in our lives. Each relationship deserves intentionality, accountability, and grace. How are you showing up in your friendships ? What changes might strengthen your most valued connections?

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So… at what point do we start panicking about our eggs? We all know the phrase “biological clock,” but what does it mean? 

In this episode of I Guess... I'm an Adult now, Chizi unpacks the quiet panic and unspoken pressure that surround fertility. From medical myths to societal expectations, we’re diving into the facts, the fears, and the very real questions many of us are asking behind closed doors.

If you’ve ever Googled “Should I freeze my eggs?” at 2 AM, this one’s for you.

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Money represents far more than currency—it symbolizes power, security, and status in ways that can deeply affect our self-image. "I had to stop and ask myself: am I sad because business isn't going well, or because I feel less than when I'm not making as much?" 

You are more than your money, but understanding how to talk about it might just change your life.

What financial conversations make you most uncomfortable? 

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From natural hair tutorials to navigating life's toughest transitions, my decade-long journey on YouTube has evolved in ways I never expected. Now, at 29 and approaching a new decade of life, I'm launching this podcast to create something we all desperately need: an honest space to discuss the messy, beautiful reality of growing up.

Behind my 500,000+ subscriber count and what appeared to be peak success between 2018-2021 was a reality few knew about – burnout, uncertainty, and a desperate search for meaning. This premiere episode pulls back the curtain on those challenging years and reveals how encountering faith transformed my perspective when I couldn't see a way forward. "I've always had a heart for people," I share, reflecting on how easy it is to lose your purpose along the path to success.

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