This week, the boys get meta — reacting to the podcast’s reactions. From family texts to fears of oversharing, we dive into anxiety, vulnerability, and whether putting ourselves out there was a huge mistake. We said you’re coming on this ride with us… so here 👏🏻we👏🏻go.

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Eliza Coupe (Happy Endings, Future Man) and her wonderful husband Billy visited us from their peaceful life in the desert, and we couldn’t be more grateful. Our conversation with Eliza focuses heavily on body shaming and online criticism—issues she’s recently faced firsthand on the red carpet. We also dive into Tyler’s road rage, Reed’s skepticism about a higher power, and much much more. we love eliza and we love you sm! 

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Mireille Enos (The Killing, World War Z) is our guest today and charmed us all with her ability to be so tiny yet so powerful like her character Sarah Lindon from the beloved TV Series, The Killing. Tyler, Reed and Mireille discuss the pain of going to the gym, Mireille’s blackbelt, putting your kids in therapy & the devastating but relatable thought every artist has whether true or not —> “I am not part of the conversation.“

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It’s Will Forte day on the ILYSM pod. what a friggen treat. The hilarious actor joins Reed and Tyler to talk about injuries & going to the doctor, kid life & getting older, marriage & Will’s v real addiction to ice cream that’s left us all craving —> chocolate chip. But not chips. Chipped chocolate. 

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Ethan Suplee—best known for My Name Is Earl and Remember the Titans—joins us in the studio this week for a deeply personal and wide-ranging conversation on male body image, diet culture, Ozempic, and the often misunderstood world of fitfluencers.

In a space where these topics are still taboo for men, Ethan, Reed, and Tyler open up about growing up as bigger kids, navigating toxic diet trends, and the silent burden of being cast as the “fat, funny sidekick” in Hollywood.

This episode meant a lot to us—we hope it resonates just as much with you.

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Fiona Dourif aka Dr. Cassie McKay from The Pitt is swooping in as ILYSM’s first official guest! While we <3 diving deep into the male experience, it is equally beneficial to learn about the female one. Enter Tyler’s bestie, the hella self actualized & talented— Fiona Dourif. Reed, Tyler, and Fiona talk grief, vulnerability, lying to your therapist, dating in LA, Fiona’s controversial take on free will, her relatable character on The Pitt and much more! 

Listen, Watch, Subscribe! Yay —> this one was special, we love you all sm for listening in :)

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Welcome to Ilysm’s very first episode! Meet Reed Fish & Tyler Labine 2 divorced Dads from Ojai, California trying to get better. Today the hosts introduce themselves, the thesis of the show & what to expect in the weeks to come.  We’ll introduce a segment called “Confessions” where Tyler & Reed own up to a tough moment they had this week. The guys talk vulnerability! Shame! Infidelity! Peacocking! Ping Pong! Sobriety! Hydrocortisone! Rashes! And much more. This has  been a wild, cathartic, terrifying ride. We thank you so much for joining us and please don’t ever forget - we love you so much ❤️

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