Dr. Warren Farrell: From The Boy Crisis to Role Mate to Soulmate; Fixing Modern Relationships

What Men, Women, and Modern Coupling Are Getting Wrong

In this candid conversation, I sit down with Dr. Warren Farrell to explore the cultural and psychological forces reshaping modern relationships.

Why do couples who genuinely love each other struggle to stay in love? Why does criticism from a partner hurt so deeply? And why do defensiveness and misunderstanding so often replace real communication? And how have changing expectations between men and women complicated marriage in ways our parents and grandparents never experienced?

Drawing from Warren’s groundbreaking books The Boy Crisis and Role Mate to Soulmate, we talk about the practical skills couples need to move beyond conflict and toward genuine understanding.

Part cultural reflection and part relationship wisdom, this conversation is for anyone trying to build lasting love in a rapidly changing world.

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LINKS

https://warrenfarrell.com

Role Mate to Soul Mate: Mastering the Art and Discipline of Love

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In Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer Podcast

Writer Kate Cohen joins Frank Schaeffer to talk about her new Substack “Scratch,” a project devoted to the things we make that keep us human.

From cooking and sewing to carpentry and farming, Cohen explores how working with our hands connects us to the material world and to each other. In a culture dominated by algorithms, automation, and AI, these acts of making may be more important than ever.

This conversation explores capability, creativity, community, and the deep human need to build, cook, repair, and create.

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https://scratchcolumn.substack.com

https://katecohen.net/

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Marianne Leone joins Frank Schaeffer to discuss her novel Christina the Astonishing, growing up Italian-American under Irish Catholic nuns, religious trauma, losing faith after her father’s death, The Sopranos, and why bold girls survive institutions built to silence them.

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LINKS

https://marianneleonecooper.com/

Christina the Astonishing

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In this revealing Conversation, I speak with historian, publisher, and author Andrew Lownie about his investigation into Prince Andrew, the aura of untouchable royal privilege, and the culture that allowed secrecy to fester and rot. We explore the Epstein scandal’s wider implications and the monarchy’s uncertain future in a world that demands transparency.

Now that Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has been arrested for his involvement, on his birthday, no less, I hope this Conversation will help give you the context of the times we are in, and that you will share it widely with your own networks.

Entitled: The Rise and Fall of The House of York

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In Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer Podcast

Jason G. Green joins me to discuss his memoir Too Precious to Lose. We talk about his years serving President Obama, the lessons he learned from his grandmother, and why community, not chaos, must shape America’s future.

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Watch the Film Finding Fellowship

Visit Jason G. Green Online

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Historian and ordained Episcopal priest Randall Balmer joins Frank Schaeffer to discuss his powerful new book, America’s Best Idea. Together they explore the true history of church-state separation, the myth of America as a Christian nation, the Treaty of Tripoli, the Supreme Court’s recent rulings, and why evangelical Christians may lose the most if Christian nationalism succeeds. A truth-telling conversation about democracy, faith, and the First Amendment.

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LINKS

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In Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer Podcast

Why the MAGA movement is far smarter, and far more dangerous, than liberals want to admit.

Political theorist Laura K. Field joins me to expose the philosophical, religious, and institutional ideas driving the MAGA New Right. From elite Catholic theorists to post-liberal power strategies, this conversation reveals why Trumpism didn’t come out of nowhere, and why ignoring it is no longer an option.

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Journalist William J. Kole joins me to talk about In Guns We Trust and the rise of gun culture inside white evangelical Christianity. We discuss fear, politics, self-defense myths, suicide, and why firearms have come to occupy a moral place once reserved for Jesus.

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LINKS

https://www.billkolebooks.com

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Why Play Matters for Children and Families | Making It Up with Christopher Mannino

A conversation about play, attention, and why being fully present with children is some of the most important work we do.

I’ve spent a lifetime raising children and helping raise grandchildren. In this conversation with Christopher Mannino, I found myself recognizing ideas I’ve learned not from books, but from years of showing up. This is about play, imagination, and why presence — not performance — is what children remember.

LINKS

https://www.christophermannino.com

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In Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer Podcast

In this conversation, I speak with Sharon Eubank about what it really means to help other people without stripping them of dignity or agency.

Drawing on decades of humanitarian work, Sharon reflects on accountability, choice, faith, and why good intentions alone are not enough. We talk about suffering not as an abstract problem, but as something that asks something of us in our communities, our institutions, and our daily lives.

This is a thoughtful discussion about responsibility, humility, and the quiet power of doing small things with great love.

LINKS

https://www.justserve.org/

Doing Small Things with Great Love

https://bookshop.org/a/99692/9781639934287

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