Welcome to Dire Straights, a feminist podcast critiquing heterosexual love, sex, politics, and culture. Dire Straights is hosted by Amanda Montei and Tracy Clark-Flory, a couple of longtime journalists, essayists, critics, and authors.

Our show is a skewering of straight existence—and an exercise in imagining new possibilities. Each episode, we’ll unpack the most dire elements of hetero culture, like:

* Couples therapy

* Dating apps

* Sex strikes

* Monogamy

* Age-gap romances

* Cries of “but what about men?”

* The orgasm gap

* Antifeminist “feminism”

* Sex positivity™

* The manosphere

* Decentering men

* Pro-natalism

* “Dark feminine” influencers

We explore sex and dating alongside marriage, divorce, and the relentlessly unequal realm of hetero parenting and the nuclear family. We also consider celebrities and politicians as case studies. Tech bros, tradwives, and TERFs are also up for examination.

Along the way, we turn to beloved feminist scholarship, call on radical contemporary thinkers, and share our own personal stories, as we try to sketch out more hopeful visions of love, sex, relationships, and romance.

This is a 100% scrappy, aging-millennial feminist operation coming to you at exactly the right time in history. We spend countless hours researching, writing, recording, editing, and producing each episode. We’re not financially dependent on corporate media or advertisers, and if we had normal day jobs, this podcast would probably get us fired from them.

Paid subscriptions are the best way to make our work possible, so head over to our show page at direstraightspod.com to subscribe and get full access to the show.

Free subscribers get:

* One full episode and one paywalled episode every month.

Paid subscribers get:

* Two full episodes a month. No paywalls, ever.

* Access to the Dire Straights community via chats and episode comment threads.

* A growing list of fun extras, including advice and bonus discussions.

Founding subscribers get:

* Annual paid subscriptions to both Tracy’s AND Amanda’s newsletters plus all paid Dire Straights perks. You save $50 for going all in on us and you'll be supporting the hell out of independent feminist media in a time of journalistic collapse and feminist backlash.

If you’re interested in supporting us more deeply in the long term, please get in touch at [email protected].

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