Welcome to the Please Me! Podcast Kink Series, where host Eve leads bold, trauma-informed conversations about sexuality, kink, empowerment, and embodied pleasure. As the number-one ranked sexuality podcast in the USA and worldwide, Please Me! brings listeners into real, raw, and educational discussions designed to close the orgasm gap and dismantle shame.

In this episode, Eve sits down with Maeve McBride — a BDSM educator, intuitive top, sexological herbalist, and Executive Director of KinkFest 2025/2026 — to explore the foundations of Intuitive Topping, BDSM roles, and how to develop real-time awareness in kink.

Drawing from insights at DomCon and Maeve’s influential “Intuitive Topping” class, this episode dives into:

The difference between Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers

How power exchange works through negotiation, communication, and consent

Why intuitive topping is not psychic ability, but pattern recognition and data collection

How to read breath, movement, vocalizations, body language, and individualized responses

How neurodivergence influences sensation expression and communication

Understanding hurt vs. harm and why negotiated pain can be safe

What defines a scene — negotiation, safewords, boundaries, aftercare, and follow-up

Why kink isn’t always sexual, and how sensation play can offer catharsis, emotional release, and embodiment

How Eve and Maeve negotiated a real pre-scene demonstration together

Why aftercare is essential for both tops and bottoms

This conversation brings clarity, depth, and compassion to kink education — offering both beginners and seasoned players a richer understanding of how intuition, safety, and connection shape BDSM.

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Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon — including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations that don’t fit into the free version. Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month

 Additional Resources Mentioned:

• Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing

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• Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon and earthquake in the Philippines https://www.worldvision.org/

• Eve’s Substack and Patreon communities for Q&A submissions and exclusive content https://pleasemewitheve.substack.com/ http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast