In this deeply embodied episode of Please Me!, Eve welcomes erotic embodiment coach and “Orgasmic Body Whisperer” Patty Alfonso for a powerful conversation on erotic innocence, feminine energy, sensual confidence, sacred sexuality, and reconnecting to your life force energy. Together, they explore how trauma, societal conditioning, shame, burnout, and hyper-productivity disconnect women from pleasure, intuition, and authentic self-expression — and how reclaiming sensuality can transform every area of life.

Eve and Patty discuss body awareness, nervous system regulation, self-pleasure as self-care, embodiment practices, communication in relationships, orgasmic energy, feminine and masculine balance, and what it means to truly feel safe in your body. They also explore how pleasure, curiosity, and sensual living can support healing, confidence, intimacy, and emotional connection.

This episode dives into topics including erotic innocence, sacred sexuality, sexual sovereignty, body positivity, orgasm equality, self-love, feminine empowerment, sensual embodiment, kink exploration, communication tools for couples, nervous system healing, pleasure practices, and reconnecting with your authentic self.

Plus, Eve and Patty step into one of the podcast’s signature role play segments, demonstrating a powerful intimacy and communication exercise called a dyad. Through guided dialogue, they model how partners can safely explore fantasies, desires, kink curiosity, consent, vulnerability, and deeper emotional intimacy through intentional communication and active listening.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, stuck in performance-based sexuality, navigating life transitions, or craving deeper intimacy and pleasure, this conversation offers empowering tools to help you reconnect with yourself and your desires.

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In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve continues with boudoir photographer Vera Glass to explore body confidence, feminine empowerment, sensual self-expression, sexuality, and the transformative power of boudoir photography.

This episode goes deeper into how boudoir can support women through divorce, motherhood, body image struggles, shame, societal expectations, and major life transitions. Vera shares how stepping in front of the camera can help women reconnect with their bodies, rebuild confidence, and begin to see themselves through the empowering lens of the female gaze.

Eve and Vera also explore how boudoir becomes a tool for emotional reinvention — helping women release old identities, rediscover pleasure, and reconnect with sensuality and self-worth at every stage of life.

The episode closes with a playful role play segment focused on intimacy and communication, including dirty talk, expressing desire, consent, and how to bring more openness, confidence, and erotic communication into partnered relationships.

Perfect for listeners interested in boudoir photography, divorce recovery, body confidence, sensual embodiment, feminine energy, sexuality, self-love, intimacy, communication, and personal transformation.

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In Part 1 of this special two-part episode of Please Me! Podcast, Eve sits down with boudoir and fashion photographer Vera Glass for a deep conversation on the female gaze, body confidence, sensuality, and self-expression. Together they explore how boudoir photography can become a powerful tool for embodiment, healing, feminine empowerment, and reconnecting with your sensual self.

Vera shares how her photography differs from traditional “male gaze” imagery by centering women’s comfort, emotional safety, confidence, and authenticity. From curated luxury photoshoots and cinematic imagery to breathwork, nervous system regulation, and emotional healing, this episode dives into the psychology behind sensual photography and why so many women leave boudoir sessions feeling transformed.

Eve and Vera also discuss body image, self-worth, intimacy, feminine energy, and how intentional photography can help women reconnect with their bodies after heartbreak, divorce, motherhood, trauma, or major life transitions.

Perfect for listeners interested in boudoir photography, self-love, body positivity, embodiment, sensual wellness, feminine confidence, sexuality, intimacy, and personal growth. Be sure to come back for Part 2 this Friday.

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This conversation explores the psychology behind dollification, sissy play, dominance and submission, humiliation, affirmation, consent, and the emotional impact of gendered power dynamics within kink spaces. Lady Veronika shares how ethical gender play can help people better understand identity, embodiment, fantasy, and self-expression while challenging shame, stigma, and outdated ideas around femininity and masculinity.

Eve and Lady Veronika also discuss the transformative nature of doll play, the importance of boundaries and intentionality in BDSM, and how kink can be used to build people up rather than tear them down. From fetish culture and trans identity to conscious kink practices and erotic self-acceptance, this episode offers a thoughtful and deeply intimate look into modern BDSM dynamics.

Perfect for listeners curious about kink education, BDSM relationships, doll play, feminization, gender expression, power exchange, consent, sexual empowerment, and alternative intimacy.

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Pleasure ME! Pop-Up is a month-long immersive destination in West Palm Beach for adults who are ready to go deeper — into pleasure, into community, and into themselves. Whether you’re brand new to this world and full of curiosity or a seasoned practitioner looking for a rich community experience, this space was created with you in mind.

Each week offers a curated rhythm of healing, education, connection, and play, featuring guest educators, performers, workshops, and experiences designed to encourage exploration, authenticity, and community. The month builds toward an unforgettable 3-day finale that brings everything together in a powerful closing experience.

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In Part 2 of this conversation, host Eve continues her discussion with Dr. Nic and Prof Mike of Divine Guidance, exploring what it means to be blindsided in a relationship and how to rebuild self-trust after emotional disruption.

This episode dives into intuition in relationships, emotional patterns in dating, and the self-awareness needed to navigate both new and long-term partnerships. The conversation unpacks why people stay in misaligned relationships, the difference between hope vs. certainty, and how to recognize early red flags before deeper attachment forms.

Eve and her guests also break down ghosting behavior, why partners come back after disappearing, and how to make confident, grounded decisions rooted in clarity—not confusion. The episode concludes with a practical role play covering communication skills, financial compatibility, and relationship alignment.

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In this powerful Part 1 conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Nic and Professor Mike Sebastian from the Trust Your Gut Save Your Ass Podcast to unpack what it really means to be blindsided in a relationship—and how to find your way back to yourself.

Through a deeply personal story, Eve shares her experience of financial manipulation within her marriage and the long-term impact it had on her life, credit, and sense of self. What begins as a reflection on a Netflix show quickly unfolds into a much larger conversation about red flags, intuition, trauma responses, and the patterns that keep people stuck in unhealthy relationships.

Together, they explore how financial dynamics can quietly erode a partnership, why so many people overlook early warning signs, and how societal pressure—especially for women—can lead to compromising your truth. This episode dives into the importance of emotional awareness, recognizing misalignment early, and understanding the role both partners play in relationship dynamics.

Dr. Nic and Professor Mike introduce the concept of “resonance” in relationships—how shared values, habits, and everyday preferences matter more than we often realize—and why ignoring small incompatibilities can lead to major fractures down the line. They also break down one of the most powerful and confronting questions you can ask in any relationship:

“Are you willing to work on this?”

This episode is an honest, nuanced look at love, accountability, and the journey of rebuilding trust—not just with others, but within yourself.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where things get even deeper with a live relationship role-play and communication breakdown.

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Welcome back to Please Me! Podcast, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, where bold conversations around intimacy, pleasure, and sexual wellness help de-stigmatize the way we talk about sex.

In this episode, Eve sits down with Luna Rose—ritual artist, kink guide, and herbalist behind Wild Pleasure Sanctuary—to explore the powerful intersection of eco-sensuality, BDSM, and embodied desire.

Luna shares how she weaves together Shibari rope work, plant-based practices, herbal medicine, and ritual to create deeply transformative experiences rooted in presence, connection, and pleasure.

From working with herbs like rose, lavender, and rosemary in sensual play to using rope for nervous system regulation and mindfulness, this conversation expands the possibilities of intimacy, healing, and self-expression.

If you're curious about conscious kink, alternative intimacy, or holistic approaches to sexuality, this episode will open your perspective in a grounded and empowering way.

• What eco-sensuality is and how nature deepens intimacy
• How plants like rose, lavender, and rosemary enhance sensual and kink experiences
• The grounding and therapeutic benefits of Shibari rope bondage
• How rope supports nervous system regulation and embodiment
• Why consent, communication, and safety are essential in BDSM
• How ritual and plant medicine intersect with sexuality
• Safe ways to explore self-pleasure and kink curiosity

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In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins to unpack how women’s “super traits”—including empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—can fuel success while also leading to burnout, people-pleasing, and a disconnection from pleasure.

Together, they explore the deeper links between trauma, boundaries, sexual health, and relationship dynamics. This episode dives into how emotional labor impacts desire, why the orgasm gap persists, and how high-achieving women often prioritize others at the expense of their own needs.

You’ll also hear a practical role-play segment that demonstrates how to communicate desires, set boundaries, and confidently center your pleasure in intimate relationships.

If you’ve ever struggled with overgiving, loss of desire, or difficulty asking for what you want—in bed or in life—this episode offers both insight and actionable tools to help you reclaim your power and reconnect with your body.

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Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, bringing bold conversations around sexual health, intimacy, and sexual empowerment.

In this episode, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins, naturopathic doctor, author of Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles Podcast. Together they explore why high-achieving women often struggle in toxic relationships and how qualities like empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—what Dr. Wiggins calls “Super Traits”—can drive success while also keeping women stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns.

They discuss the connection between trauma, intimacy, libido, and emotional burnout, and why many successful women experience mismatched desire, sexless marriages, or disconnection in relationships despite thriving professionally.

This conversation also explores praise kink, emotional labor in relationships, and how “love languages” can sometimes be weaponized when one partner over-functions while the other under-functions.

In This Episode

• What Super Traits are and how they affect relationships
• The connection between trauma and toxic relationship patterns
• Why high-achieving women struggle with libido and intimacy
• How chronic stress and over-functioning shut down pleasure centers
• The role of praise, validation, and emotional labor in relationships
• Why pleasure and fulfillment are essential for overall health

Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:

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