Ever feel awkward asking for what you truly want in bed? You're not alone. In this empowering episode of Please Me!, Eve is joined by the bold and brilliant Pepper Kat, a sex worker, content creator, and host of Spicy Spectrum. Together, they dive into the vital conversation about sexual communication, setting boundaries, and how creating a safe, non-judgmental space can enhance pleasure.

Pepper Kat shares her journey from the news industry to her empowering work in sex work, and how her unique role allows her to teach clients about intimacy, boundaries, and personal sexual liberation. The episode includes a roleplay segment where Eve and Pepper demonstrate how to set boundaries around a scene with a virtual sex worker. They discuss the power of dirty talk and how it can elevate sexual pleasure, as well as why clear communication in the bedroom is essential for creating deeper connections and enhancing intimacy.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, exploring solo play, or considering hiring a sex worker, this episode gives you the tools to break free from societal shame and communicate your sexual needs and desires confidently.

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Website: pleaseme.online

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Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women:

I’m excited to announce my new one-day event, Bare Business and Beauty: A Wellness Retreat for Women! Join me for a transformative day of self-care, empowerment, and growth. Get all the details here: Events - Please Me!

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In this enlightening encore episode of Please Me, Eve delves into the fascinating world of dreams and their transformative power, without the guest's name but still touching on the intriguing aspects of our dream life.

Key Topics Discussed:

Introduction to Dreams and Their Importance: Eve explores the different types of dreams, including lucid dreams, sex dreams, and premonitions, and how each type can offer unique perspectives and messages.

Lucid Dreaming: They discuss techniques for inducing lucid dreams and the benefits of experiencing them, such as heightened creativity and problem-solving abilities.

Sex Dreams and Their Meanings: A deep dive into the topic of sex dreams, exploring their common themes and what they might signify about our desires, fears, and relationships.

Wet Dreams and Pleasure: A special focus on wet dreams—how they differ from other types of sexual dreams and their potential connection to pleasure, desires, and self-exploration.

Dream Journaling and Interpretation: Guidance on how to interpret common dream symbols and themes, encouraging listeners to reflect on their dreams as a pathway to greater self-awareness and personal growth.

Using Dreams for Creativity and Problem-Solving: Inspiring examples of how dreams have led to creative breakthroughs and innovative solutions to problems.

Open Communication About Dreams and Desires: The episode wraps up with a discussion on the importance of communicating openly about our needs, desires, and intentions—both in our waking lives and in our dream states.

Connect with Debbie Spector Weisman: Visit The Dream Coach for more information.

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In this encore episode of Please Me, host Eve sits down with the incredibly talented self-taught portrait photographer, Melissa Ushtchenko. Melissa specializes in boudoir self-portraits, creating a unique blend of art and self-reflection that goes far beyond the traditional selfie. They dive into the empowering process of capturing oneself through the lens, discussing the therapeutic and meditative qualities of self-portraiture, and how it helps build confidence and a deeper connection with one's body.

Melissa shares her journey from brand photography to becoming a boudoir photographer, ignited by a moment of divine inspiration during the pandemic. She explains how boudoir self-portraits differ from the usual Instagram selfies and how the solo experience of self-photography allows individuals to explore and express their true selves without the influence of external judgment.

Throughout the conversation, Eve and Melissa explore the importance of embracing the "messiness" of the process, both in photography and in life, and how this acceptance can lead to beautiful, unexpected results. They also discuss how this practice can be a powerful tool for people recovering from surgeries or learning to love their bodies after significant changes.

Melissa also talks about her course that guides people in creating their own self-portrait practice, offering a space for continuous self-discovery and empowerment. The episode wraps up with tips on how to prepare for a boudoir session, including the importance of being present, tapping into sensuality, and creating a personalized, sensory-rich environment.

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Join Marijke McCandless and Eve as they delve into topics of infidelity, reconnection, playful sex, and deep diving into your personal space of sacred sexuality. Marijke discusses her book, Naked in the Now, emphasizing the importance of presence in intimate sensuality. She shares her roadmap to achieving this state and guides listeners through experiences of vulnerability on a journey towards finding naked reverence.

Key Topics Discussed:

Connect with Marijke McCandless:

Explore Marijke's insights further and access her freebie guide on starting your own personal inner striptease at marijkemccandless.com

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In this special Friday bonus episode of Please Me, Eve dives deep into the gold standard treatment for decreased vaginal sensitivity, dryness, and erectile dysfunction—Acoustic Wave Therapy. Eve breaks down how this revolutionary therapy improves blood flow, enhances sensitivity, and restores natural lubrication for both men and women.

If you’ve ever experienced painful sex, difficulty with arousal, or erectile dysfunction, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in as Eve explains the science behind Acoustic Wave Therapy, how it works, and why it’s the leading treatment for sexual wellness.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What causes decreased vaginal sensitivity, dryness, and erectile dysfunction How blood flow impacts sexual function and pleasure The role of the clitoris in comfortable penetrative sex How Acoustic Wave Therapy works to restore natural lubrication and sensitivity Why this treatment is the gold standard for sexual health Who can benefit from this therapy and how to access it

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It’s a wrap on Season 4 of Please Me! and what a season it’s been! In this episode, Eve is joined by special guest Rhiannon Aguilar as they reflect on the boldest, most transformative conversations that happened this season; from orgasm equality and body positivity to menopause, kink, and the power of slowing down. Plus, Eve is giving you a sneak peek into what’s coming in Season 5—including some juicy surprises you won’t want to miss!

What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How embracing pleasure and self-care can transform your life Why open communication is the key to great sex and relationships The connection between trauma, menopause, and sexual wellness Kink, ethical non-monogamy, and what we can all learn from the BDSM community The power of rest, feminine energy, and receiving A look ahead to Season 5 and an exciting event announcement!

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Sex should be pleasurable, but for many women, pain during intercourse is a common yet rarely discussed issue. In this episode, Eve breaks down the causes of painful sex, including dyspareunia and vaginismus, and shares practical solutions to help you reclaim pleasure. From understanding pelvic floor health to the role of hormones, lubrication, and foreplay, this episode is packed with insights to help you navigate this sensitive but important topic.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
💡 The difference between dyspareunia (pain during intercourse) and vaginismus (involuntary muscle contractions).
💡 How psychological factors like anxiety, stress, and past trauma contribute to painful sex.
💡 The impact of hormonal imbalances and vaginal dryness—and what you can do about it.
💡 Why foreplay and arousal time are essential for pain-free penetration.
💡 The role of pelvic floor therapy in treating vaginismus and chronic pain.
💡 Tips for exploring comfortable sex positions to reduce discomfort.
💡 The importance of aftercare and post-sex routines to prevent infections.

Key Takeaways:
✔ Painful sex is common but treatable—you're not alone!
✔ Vaginal dryness, pelvic floor tension, and psychological stressors all play a role.
✔ Preparing your body with foreplay (20-25 minutes!) is key to reducing pain.
✔ Hormonal imbalances can lead to pain—get your levels checked!
✔ Pelvic floor therapy, lubricants, and gradual desensitization exercises can help.

Resources & Links Mentioned:
✨ Pelvic Floor Therapy
✨ Hormonal Testing
✨ Lubrication Matters 

Connect:

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Money, health, and intimacy—how are they all connected? 

You might be surprised! In this episode, Eve sits down with Stephanie Polcyn, a wellness coach turned financial advisor, to break down the powerful relationship between financial well-being, physical health, and a thriving love life.

We’re tackling:
The #1 financial mistake that can put a wedge in your relationship
Why financial stress can lower libido and cause tension in the bedroom
How open conversations about money can improve trust, connection, and intimacy
The importance of nutrition and health in feeling confident and energized in your relationship
How tracking your health and habits can transform both your finances and your sex life
Practical tips for financial empowerment that also support overall well-being

Stephanie shares her personal experiences and expert insights on how prioritizing your health and financial security can lead to more energy, confidence, and passion in your relationship.
 

Key Takeaway: When you feel good in your body and secure in your finances, you show up happier, healthier, and more connected in every part of life—including intimacy!

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Episode Summary:

Did you know that stem cells play a crucial role in not only your overall health but also your sexual wellness? In this episode of Please Me, Eve is diving deep into the fascinating world of stem cells—what they are, how they function in your body, and why they’re essential for maintaining vitality, energy, and even a satisfying sex life.

She explores how stem cell production naturally declines with age and lifestyle factors, what that means for your body, and how innovative solutions like LifeWave patches can help stimulate natural stem cell regeneration. Plus, She discuss the importance of circulation, inflammation reduction, and holistic health strategies to keep your body thriving from the inside out.

If you’ve been looking for ways to boost your energy, improve your overall wellness, and enhance your intimacy, this episode is packed with must-know information!

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

 What stem cells are and why they matter for your body’s regeneration How stem cells are connected to sexual health and libido The role of inflammation in disease and how to reduce it naturally Why circulation is key to overall vitality and pleasure How LifeWave patches work to stimulate stem cell production Holistic wellness tips to maintain health and enhance intimacy

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In this deeply personal and powerful episode of Please Me!,  Eve sits down with author, blogger, and mental health advocate Cathelina Duvert to discuss the long-lasting effects of trauma on sexual health, self-worth, and relationships. Cathelina shares her journey of healing from childhood trauma, navigating depression, and how her experiences have shaped her views on intimacy, self-expression, and personal empowerment. Together, they explore the challenges of discussing sexual needs with a partner, overcoming shame, and reclaiming pleasure after trauma.

The episode also features a compelling role-play where Eve, in the role of a therapist, guides Cathelina through ways to communicate desires and boundaries in the bedroom—providing listeners with practical tools to foster open and healthy conversations about intimacy.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

 How childhood trauma can impact sexual health and intimacy The link between depression, self-worth, and relationships The importance of self-awareness in breaking patterns of unhealthy relationships Why open communication is key to sexual fulfillment Practical ways to start the conversation about needs and desires with a partner The role of therapy, writing, and self-reflection in the healing process

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About Our Guest: Cathelina Duvert

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