Is it possible—or even ethical—to diagnose a teenager with borderline personality disorder (BPD)? This question is a sensitive topic in the mental health field, and one that countless parents and teens are asking. In this episode, we dive into the complexities of identifying BPD traits in adolescents and explore why many professionals approach this diagnosis cautiously when it comes to teens. We’ll answer some of the most frequently asked questions, like how to support a teenager who identifies with symptoms commonly associated with BPD, and how parents can navigate their own feelings of guilt and uncertainty. Through listener questions, we’ll explore whether the label of a personality disorder can be truly helpful for a still-developing teenager and discuss healthier ways to support them through their emotional challenges.

Topics covered include:

• Key questions for parents to consider before responding to emotionally charged situations with their teens
• The “campsite rule” and how it can improve relationships (borrowed from the wisdom of Dan Savage)
• Why mental health professionals have been cautious in diagnosing BPD in teenagers
• Addressing common questions like “Do parents cause their children to develop BPD traits?”
• Practical strategies for managing and understanding “splitting” behaviors in teens

This episode encourages a compassionate approach, focusing on understanding and supporting teens as they navigate complex emotions—without prematurely labeling them as “disordered.”

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The information contained in this podcast episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment or consultation with a licensed mental health professional.

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