We love softness, safety, and sanity — but this episode gave everything but.

From interracial dating awkwardness and the mystery of Taylor Swift’s grip on white women, to being BLOCKED over a last-minute favor, this week we tapped into the r/BlackLadies subreddit to unpack the subtle (and not so subtle) moments where we realize: maybe we’re not on the same page.

We’ve also got an extremely toxic confession, OBK Book Club mentions, and Mrs. Sawyer returns with School Snacks.

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00:00 Homeroom

09:42 ATBK intro

10:07 Mrs. Sawyer will Cut You With a Smile

11:53 ATBK- My Man Feels Like an Overdue Bill

18:10 What is it about Taylor Swift that white women love so much???

25:39 Battle of the White Girls

28:23 My white boyfriend watched Sinners for the first time

36:25 Robert's Theories on Commercials

40:28 The concept of sharing a bed with someone forever..

48:33 My friend of 9 years blocked me because I didn’t do her a last minute favor

55:40 OBK Book Club

59:40 School Snacks

01:07:26 Ms_ParkerForReal- My Last 9 Years

01:13:47 Toxic Confessions- She Wore a Diaper to the Chris Brown Concert

01:15:31 Toxic Confessions- She begs on TikTok and Lies about Me

01:16:23 Toxic Confessions- I Left My Job and Fiancé for willing women in Thailand

01:17:32 Toxic Confessions- I Wanted to Show Him I could be the Better Woman

01:18:49 Toxic Confessions- Get in Line before I Become Your Step-Daddy

01:20:27 Toxic Confessions- I Had my Palm Read in New Orleans