NLP That Works: Josh Davis on Science-Backed Change Tools for Coaches & Everyday Life In this episode of the Essential Coaching Skills Podcast, Doug O’Brien sits down with neuroscientist, author, and Master NLP Trainer Josh Davis, PhD. They dive deep into the heart of NLP—what works, what doesn’t, and why the field is overdue for a science-backed revival. Josh is the co-author of The Difference That Makes a Difference, a groundbreaking new book that blends practical NLP tools with modern research. If you’ve ever wondered whether NLP is more than just clever language tricks—or you’ve struggled to explain it to skeptics—this episode is for you. 👉 Topics we cover: ✔ The #1 NLP book Doug recommends now (goodbye, Unlimited Power?) ✔ Scientific evidence behind classic NLP techniques like disassociation ✔ The ethics of influence—how to use NLP responsibly ✔ Why Josh believes NLP is ready for a new generation ✔ Quick coaching prompts you can use right now ✔ Why the Meta Model still matters—and how to teach it better ✔ NLP for relationships, public speaking, and confidence 🧠 Whether you're a coach, therapist, speaker, or just NLP-curious—get ready to rethink how you think. 🔗 Resources: Get the book: https://nlpdifference.com Doug’s book: The User’s Guide to Sleight of Mouth Subscribe to the podcast and leave a review! 00:00 – Intro: Meet Josh Davis, PhD 01:55 – Why NLP needed a new book 05:15 – Is there real science behind NLP techniques? 08:44 – How Josh and his co-author made NLP practical 13:30 – What “The Difference That Makes a Difference” really means 17:55 – Why NLP can’t be a one-size-fits-all approach 21:30 – The ethics of influence and manipulation 28:40 – Coaching prompt: Reframing with positive intent 32:15 – NLP for confidence and public speaking 36:10 – Doug’s take on anchoring vs. authenticity 39:00 – NLP for relationships and emotional triggers 43:20 – How the Meta Model is taught differently in this book 48:00 – Who this book is really for 52:10 – Why storytelling is still a secret coaching superpower 55:30 – Final thoughts + where to find Josh online