You wake up with a crick in your neck. You’re thrilled about arch support or not wearing pants. You’re being called “ma’am” by baristas who look like they still do homework. Welcome to your mid-30s, where everything is a little funnier and a little more confusing.

In this episode, we unpack the tiny (and not-so-tiny) moments that make you realize you’ve entered a new life chapter. From pop culture confusion to relationship recalibrations and body surprises you did not see coming, we’re talking all things mid-30s weirdness. And yeah, we googled perimenopause so you don’t have to.

Whether you’re deep in the “is this it?” era or still trying to define what it means to be a “grown-up,” you’re not alone.

Let’s laugh about it together.

This week, we’re diving into the very real, very weird moment we’re in with AI. From time-saving magic to creativity crises, we unpack how we’re actually using AI in our lives—at work, in our self-reflection routines, and in the in-between space where Google isn’t cutting it and therapy’s next week.

In This Episode:

• Why AI is already part of our day-to-day (and we’re not totally mad about it)

• Using tools like ChatGPT for goal-setting, problem-solving, and emotional check-ins

• How AI’s helping with the busy work—and sparking new ethical “ick” feelings

• The tension between efficiency and originality

• What it means to stay human in a tech-first world

Key Takeaways:

• AI is saving us time, but it’s also making us question our creativity

• Nicole’s using it to visualize big goals and untangle personal roadblocks

• Meagan’s feeling protective over creative work—and kinda nervous

• We’re both asking: just because we can use AI... should we?

“You should be married by 30.”
“Don’t talk about money.”
“Thin = good.”
Sound familiar? This week, Cole and Meag are breaking down the invisible rulebook so many of us internalized growing up—and officially calling BS.

From career timelines and fertility fear-mongering to the “cool girl” commandments and the myth of adulting milestones, we’re unpacking the cultural scripts that shaped us… and how we’re finally rewriting them.

It’s a little cathartic, a little spicy, and deeply validating if you’ve ever asked: Wait, who decided this was the plan?

We get into:

• Why home ownership isn’t a moral achievement

• The quiet rebellion of talking about money with friends

• The generational shift away from hustle culture

• How friendships in your 30s might matter more than marriage

• And why being “too much” is actually just being yourself

If you’re in your 30s or 40s navigating your own rule-breaker era, this one’s for you.

Welcome to your unofficial guide to the chaos and charm of Hot Girl Wellness Summer. In this episode, Meag and Cole share what’s actually working in their wellness routines—and what’s just a pretty bottle with a broken promise.

From the deeply unsexy but wildly important topic of chronic inflammation to the joys of a really good gua sha session, we’re getting real about what it means to take care of yourself when everything (your skin, your gut, your cortisol levels) needs attention.

We’re talking skincare products that work (even if they smell questionable), treatments we swear by, tools we love, and how we’re approaching wellness as a long game—not a quick fix.

This one’s for anyone who’s ever stared at their supplement drawer wondering if they’re slowly becoming their own naturopath.

Nicole and Meagan are treating this summer like it might be their last one rolling solo—and not in a panicky “lock it down” way, but in a present, playful, “make it count” kind of way. This week’s conversation is all about what it means to date (or not) with ease, enjoy your own company, and step out of the pressure cooker long enough to actually have fun.

They’re talking about the tension between freedom and future-building, the art of the digital detox, and redefining what fun looks like in your 30s—especially when you’re kind of tired but still want to kiss a stranger and dance at 2am. It’s about letting go of the performance, tuning into what really feels good and ultimately asking “what does it mean to have a joyful, uncurated summer in your 30s?”

Whether you’re dating, detoxing, or just trying to remember how to relax, this conversation is a love letter to embracing now – before the next chapter writes itself.

Takeaways:

• "Last single girls summer" is a mindset shift – not a deadline.
• Digital detoxing = reclaiming attention for real life joy.
• You can be intentional without being intense about dating.
• Makeouts and mediocrity both have their place.
• Fun doesn't have to be extreme to be meaningful.
• Setting work boundaries makes space for spontaneity.
• Your summer doesn't need to be optimized – it just needs to be lived.

What does it actually mean to be in your feminine energy—and why do so many high-achieving women struggle with it, especially when dating?

This week we’re joined by feminine embodiment coach Bri Mosher (aka Building Bri) to talk about the shift from wounded to empowered feminine energy. We explore how trauma shapes our relationship patterns, why somatic healing matters, and how to reconnect with your body, intuition, and emotional safety.

In this conversation:

• Wounded vs. empowered feminine energy (and why it matters)

• How somatic practices support nervous system healing

• Self-worth, attraction, and preparing your energy before a date

• The trap of always “doing” vs. learning how to receive

• Intuition vs. anxiety—and how to tell the difference

• Tech, numbing, and the disconnection from our bodies

Whether you're rethinking how you show up in relationships or trying to feel more grounded in your feminine side, this episode is full of real talk, practical tools, and honest insights.

Connect with Bri on Instagram: @buildingbricoaching

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What does it actually mean to be a girl’s girl in 2025? In this episode, Cole and Meag dive deep into the heart of female friendships – through the lens of their own stories, struggles, and sisterhood.

They open up about online criticism, the growing pains of friendships shifting from your twenties into your thirties, and why tough conversations are the real love language. From weekend adventures to skin care flops, from TikTok trends to emotional support systems – this is a candid, cozy chat about the beauty and complexity of showing up for your people and yourself.

You’ll hear them unpack:

• How self-care rituals can help with burnout and emotional fatigue

• The evolving definition of a “girl’s girl” in a hyperconnected world

• Why communication, trust, and emotional safety matter more than ever

• Why being a good friend means celebrating each other, even when life looks different

Whether you're in a friendship glow-up or navigating growing pains, this one’s for you.

In this weeks episode, Cole and Meag get real about the quiet ache for connection so many women feel in their 30s. They unpack how romantic comedies shaped our earliest ideas of love—and the gap between those dreamy meet-cutes and today’s swipe culture.In a world where we’re always connected but rarely truly connecting, this episode explores what it means to crave small, meaningful moments of romance. From emotional intelligence to spontaneous sparks, they talk about what we’re really looking for: tenderness, effort, and the kind of connection that makes us feel alive again.If you’ve ever felt disillusioned with modern dating or found yourself missing the magic, this conversation will feel like a warm hug and a gentle nudge toward hope.Takeaways:

• Celebrating milestones with friends can bring unexpected joy.
• Romantic comedies have shaped unrealistic expectations of love.
• The importance of vulnerability in modern relationships is emphasized.
• Hyper-connectivity has led to a lack of genuine connection.
• Friendship and support are crucial during personal milestones.
• Romance is often found in spontaneous moments of connection.
• Dating apps have created a paradox of choice that can hinder genuine connections.
• It's important to be open to interactions that may not lead to anything significant.
• Setting boundaries is crucial in dating, but so is being open to new experiences.
• Emotional intelligence in relationships is often lacking, yet highly desired.
• Women should create opportunities for romance rather than waiting for it to happen.
• Fleeting moments can bring joy and excitement, even if they don't lead to lasting relationships.
• The portrayal of romance in media often sets unrealistic expectations for women.
• Being present and approachable can lead to unexpected romantic encounters.
• Compliments and kindness can enhance the romantic atmosphere in everyday life.

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In this week's episode, Meagan and Nicole dive into the now-viral conversation between Steven Bartlett, Logan Ury and Scott Galloway on the crisis facing young men today—and how it impacts modern relationships and women. From the decline of male role models to the challenges of emotional connection, we explore the “lost boys” phenomenon through a lens of empathy, economic realities, and dating dynamics.

As women in our 30s navigating the highs and lows of modern dating, we reflect on how shifting gender roles, post-pandemic social changes, and a growing disconnect between men and women are reshaping what we want—and need—in a partner. Whether you're dating, parenting, or just curious about the state of masculinity today, this episode offers nuanced insights, personal reflections, and practical thoughts on how we can build stronger relationships based on communication, vulnerability, and core values.

Takeaways:

• The episode discusses the struggles of young men in today's society.
• There is a lack of male role models for young men.
• Empathy for men's issues is essential for understanding their struggles.
• Community and connection are vital for young men's well-being.
• Societal structures need to change to support young men.
• The podcast's focus on men's issues can be frustrating for women.
• Parenting dynamics are influenced by changing gender norms.
• The conversation around masculinity needs to include actionable solutions.
• Understanding the data on young men's struggles is crucial for empathy. Understanding the nuances of modern dating is essential.
• Does economic viability play a significant role in male desirability?
• Women prioritize core values like integrity and kindness in relationships.
• Empathy is crucial in understanding the dating experiences of both genders.
• Men often date based on immediate attraction, while women consider potential.
• Communication and vulnerability are key in building strong relationships.
• Women are increasingly economically independent, changing dating dynamics.
• Social interactions have evolved post-pandemic, requiring new approaches.
• Grace and awareness in dating can improve connections.
• Engaging in societal issues and voting is important for change.

In this episode of it's cool, us too, we sit down with Kate McKenna, producer of the digital series Mom Life Crisis, to talk honestly about the raw realities of motherhood. From navigating friendships and the unequal mental load of parenting to finding moments of flow amid the chaos, Kate shares her journey with authenticity and grace. We dive into how COVID-19 shaped the parenting experience and why honest conversations are crucial for maintaining mental health and community support. Whether you're a mom, thinking about becoming one, or just curious about the realities of motherhood, this episode offers a fresh, unfiltered perspective.

Tune in for a candid chat about self-discovery, friendship dynamics, and giving ourselves grace—even when life gets messy. Plus, Kate’s advice on how to support friends through motherhood and beyond.

Want more?

• Follow Kate @kmckenna77
• Watch Mom Life Crisis
• The episode of the social that started it all

Takeaways

• Kate McKenna discusses her journey as a producer and mother.

• The transition to motherhood can be unexpectedly challenging.
• Many women feel pressure to balance work and motherhood.
• COVID-19 has significantly impacted the parenting experience.
• Honest conversations about motherhood are crucial for mental health.
• Jealousy can indicate what you truly desire in life.
• Maintaining friendships can be difficult after having children.
• Communication is key in friendships, especially during life changes.
• The emotional ups and downs of motherhood are common and valid.
• Community support is essential for new mothers. Navigating long-distance friendships requires effort and grace.
• It's important to give each other grace in relationships.
• Support during motherhood can come in simple forms, like grocery shopping together.
• Authentic conversations can lead to deeper connections.
• Friendship dynamics change significantly during motherhood.
• The mental load of parenting often falls unequally on women.
• Men also experience challenges in parenthood but may lack outlets to express them.
• The transition into motherhood can feel like a loss of one's previous self.
• Self-discovery is a continuous journey through motherhood.
• Finding small moments of flow can enhance daily life.