it's not just you

it's not just you

By Soph and RachSociety & Culture
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it's not just you episodes

  • i can't stop comparing myself to my best friend
    we know comparison is the thief of joy but what happens when you can’t stop comparing yourself to your best friend? in this episode soph opens up about a difficult season of our friendship where she felt like every aspect of her life was falling short next to rach’s. from relationships, to friendships, to career, it felt all consuming. if you’ve ever felt like you're measuring yourself against someone you love, this one’s for you!

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    42 min
  • i have big dreams and i feel stuck
    ever struggled to feel content in the season you’re in? or felt like you have big dreams but have no idea how to pursue them? you’re not alone! today we’re joined by our visionary of a friend, connie. she shares her story, including the way she went from being made redundant to moving to london and getting a dream job in the creative industry with steven bartlett.

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    39 min
  • i struggle to let people love me
    letting people love you can be hard sometimes. don’t get us wrong, it’s such an amazing gift to have people in your life who are kind and generous, but sometimes it can be hard to receive their love as a gift without feeling guilty. it’s important to learn how to do this 🫶

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    23 min
  • everyone in the group is closer to each other than they are to me
    ever feel like you're competing with the people in your friendship group? ever feel like everyone knows each other better than you do? friendship groups can be full of weird dynamics and today we want to chat about them! hopefully you can relate and and take comfort in knowing it’s not just you.

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    29 min
  • i find making close friends hard
    today we’re discussing close friendship. as adults, creating and building close friendships can be difficult. how do you meet new people? what do you do when you move to a brand new city?! join us as we share some of our friendship story, including we went from being total strangers at uni to the closest of friends!

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    28 min
  • my birthday stresses me out
    find celebrating your birthday lowkey stressful? feel pressure to have the best day of your year? it's not just you! from choosing a way to celebrate, to deciding who to invite, to making sure everyone has a good time, birthday's can be a lot!

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    35 min
  • how to get through long distance
    rach shares about the challenges in her long distance relationship. how did you get through it? how do you show someone you love them when you're far apart? how do you navigate communication across different lives, routines and maybe even time zones?! even though it's hard, there's loaads you learn from doing long distance and loads you gain!

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    28 min
  • the world of skincare stresses me out
    ever felt totally and utterly STUCK when it comes to buying skincare products? same. today’s episode is essentially a half hour rant about the world of skincare. why are there thousands of the same product? why do we all feel the pressure to have a 10 step skincare routine? how does anyone know what to buy? looking after our skin is important but also surely there are more pressing things to focus our attention on?!

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    29 min
  • the reality of being single in your 20's
    are you one of the only single people in your friendship group, circles, work place or maybe even family? we talk about some of the frustrating realities of being single when everyone around you is in a relationship (or maybe even married) with the hope of reminding anyone who needs it that they're not alone!

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    37 min
  • it's january and i'm struggling
    it's not just you who struggles at the beginning of a new year. christmas is over, it's freezing cold and sometimes you're just not feeling attempting 5 *unrealistic* new goals. listen along as we chat about times we've struggled in the new year and things that have helped us get through january!

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    28 min

About it's not just you

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join us for honest conversation as we address ‘the things everyone feels but no one really speaks about’. we’re soph and rach, two girls who met at uni six years ago and have been inseparable ever…

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