I sometimes hear that men and women are partners, that there's some kind of equal say in the relationship. They're co-captains or whatever. I also hear guys in the space say that it's not you vs her, it should be you and her vs the world! That's a great example of blue pill idealism. Yeah, maybe it SHOULD be that way, but it isn't. Women are opportunistic at the end of the day. She's out for herself, and so you must be too.