In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary tackle a spicier get-to-know-us Q&A. They pick the one bedroom toy they’d keep, share the everyday sounds that spark flirt mode, discuss whether enthusiastic sex can be restored, and unpack body count, fading desire, and the “constant attention” myth. They open up about a kink they admire but haven’t tried, foods that kill the mood, give-vs-receive dilemmas, on-camera versus real-life boundaries, car quickies versus luxury slow burns, mutual self-pleasure on video chat, the profile keywords that trigger an instant swipe-left, and a rapid “hot or pass” on rope, wax, and ice.