Kinky Tapas: Psychological Kink, Dominance & More

Luna Matatas & Marla Renee Stewart join us to offer a sneak peek into their Kinky Tapas retreat. They answer all of our questions including:

How do I begin to explore my dominant side?

What’s the difference between Dominance & submission versus Topping and Bottoming?

How do I ensure safety when exploring psychological kink?

How do I introduce a bit of kink into our existing sexual routine?

When can pain be pleasurable?

How can I explore genital worship and torture?

Check out the Kinky Tapas seminar in Oakland, California April 29th - May 1st. (Use code KINKMEUP to save!) Hosted in two beautiful dungeons, the event includes catering & kinky photography and explorations of a range of topics including:

Luna & Marla will take you to two dungeons in California where they’ll cover:

Confidence and erotic creativity

Scene Setting, Safety & Communication

Commanding a Room

Developing confidence and presence

Dominant Do’s and Don’ts

Submissive Communication Skills

Rope Bondage

Spanking & Other Impact Play

Choking & Breath Play

Sensation Play

Genital Worship & Torture

Strap-On Play

Butt Play

Fluid Fetishes

Skills for Subs

Common Fetishes

Any additional fetishes that you’d like to know about!

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Kinky Tapas: Psychological Kink, Dominance & More

Participant #1:

You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast, Sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your cohost, Brandon Denwear here with my lovely other half, Dr. Jess. Hey. Hey. How are you? I'm pretty good. I'm excited to talk kink with you. Amazing. I'm always excited, Doc kink. Do you consider yourself kinky? I do not. Okay. But do you practice kink? I think we practice, yes. I don't think that we're very kinky in comparison to maybe the people and the professionals that were around. Right. And so even though we maybe do the things that are kinky, it's not a part of our identity. Yes. Like it's something we do, but not something that we feel we are. Is that maybe and I don't know that the people that were around, maybe they do feel like it's a part of who they are, their identity. But I'm comparing it to the people that we've talked to where their kinks t...