If you want to create polarity, attraction, and connection in a relationship, it’s up to you to lead. I know, it’s not fair!

A lot of the men I work with ask, "What about her? When is it her turn to lead?" And women often say, "I want to lead too."

Why is this?

Nice Guys tend to avoid leading in their relationships because they fear rejection or upsetting their partners. So they hand over the reins.

But here’s the thing. When a man won’t lead, the woman feels she can’t trust him. She starts to resent him. At first, she might appreciate his attentiveness, but soon enough, she sees him as having no backbone, making no decisions, always leaving the pressure to her.

It’s not about control. It’s about presence. Strength. The courage to lead with love. And when you do, you’ll find that the connection, the attraction, the polarity you crave, it all falls into place.