The Nice Guy Show

Have you ever seen two people in a relationship that you know is dead but somehow they didn’t get the memo?  You probably know on a gut level what I’m talking about - you see two people who do nothing but argue, complain about each other, or completely ignore each other. 

I believe that a relationship is a living thing with its own life force that can die.  The two partners may still be officially a couple and they may still be attached to each other but the love and care and energy have evaporated. Yet the thing just keeps going, staggering around from day to day, draining those who come in contact with it. This is what I call the nightmare scenario: a zombie relationship.  How do you know if you’re in a zombie relationship and how do you prevent it? 

In this podcast, you will discover How To Be More Social & Create a Social Circle even if you are shy, an introvert or an nerd… and

• If you find yourself spending too much time isolated
• working from home and
• don’t have many guy friends to hang out with
• nothing to do over the weekend and feel LONELY a lot
• this podcast is for you.

And for the guys who get into a relationship and start neglecting their guy mates and their hobbies and know you want know how to make friends and where to go to make friends.

Today we’re going to delve into a polarizing topic. No, not which direction should the toilet paper hang. Not does pineapple belong on pizza. I’m talking about friends of the opposite sex if you’re in a committed relationship. Gasp! What do you do if you’re in a relationship and she has a lot of male friends? Are you okay with that? Or are you just insecure if you don’t want her to have these types of relationships? Is it okay that you have friendships with members of the opposite sex if you’re in a committed relationship? 

A lot of men want to know, will I be a nice guy forever? The conventional wisdom in nice guy coaching is that you will always be recovering from vestiges of the syndrome, that you are always susceptible to falling back into nice guy patterns.  But can some or all nice guy patterns be fully resolved or eliminated? Just how much can someone change?

Have you ever had a woman say to you:

• You are not listening to me.
• You are not empathic.
• You don’t get it or understand me.

Wait a minute, what about you guys?

Let’s hear it for the men.

Do you find women listen to you?

Do you feel understood and respected?

Well, let’s find out if only men are bad listeners. In my book, that may not always be the case.

Why are men’s groups so critical for a man? When I  started my journey of becoming a conscious man, I did it through books and 1 on 1 coaching. And I made a lot of progress.  I learned more about how to lead in my relationships, set boundaries, and get out of my comfort zone. But I didn’t realize that I had actually hit a wall in my growth. If you want to understand what this wall is, then keep listening.

Have you ever had a woman who’s constantly nagged, complained about you all the time and criticized everything you did, and no matter what you did, it never resolved the complains. 

Then this podcast is for you  and I we will share why women complain and what you can do to stop the complaining.

Welcome to the Nice Guy Show. With Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff and Chuck Chapman.

The three of us are coaches dedicated to helping nice guys because we are recovering nice guys ourselves. Together, we have decades of experience helping men level up. Our mission is to help men develop the confidence and the skills to get the love, sex, and success they desire. Today's guest is Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, who discusses cheating.

An anxiety I’ve often had in the past when it came to my relationships was that my partner might leave me. This only contributed to my Nice Guy Behavior in, well just about every area of the relationship. This fear that “she may leave you” is fuel to the Nice Guy Syndrome. 

I’ve seen this pattern over and over again with the men that I work with in my coaching Nice Guys who are trying to recover and become integrated men. It seems that this fear is so deeply entrenched that it’s almost written into the Nice Guys DNA. That’s because it is.

What is it about bad boys women can’t get enough of?

Why do women keep going back to bad boys they know they are trouble?

What type of men are they?

What type of women bad boys?

Why do nice-guys finish last?

Do nice-guys need to become bad boys?