Have you ever felt so stuck on getting women to meet your needs that it occupied nearly every free moment? Well that was me a couple years ago.  I was a few years out from my divorce.  When I wasn’t working or parenting, I was thinking about dating or sex.  I felt a chronic hunger for women that had been there since forever.  So I decided it was time to get off that hamster wheel.  I hit the ultimate reset button, the nuclear option, I quit women for 9 months!

Before I even knew what a Nice Guy was in terms of the Nice Guy syndrome, I thought of myself as just that—a Nice Guy. And I truly believed I was. When I first read *No More Mr. Nice Guy* about 15 years ago, it was like looking into a mirror. Every page felt like it was written about me. But there was one thing in that book that hit me hard, like a punch to the gut: as a Nice Guy, I was actually really manipulative.

I had these covert contracts, these unspoken deals where I’d give just to get. I’d pretend to be whatever someone wanted me to be, but in reality, I was just trying to get my needs met. My life was a lie. I was packaging nice as a way of manipulating others. My kind and accommodating nature was often a cover for a hidden agenda—to get what I wanted without feeling shameful or risking rejection or making someone mad at me.

Do you think small? Do you poo poo any big idea you have as far fetched? Do you feel like big ideas and big things are for other people? Is it hopeless or is there a cure for thinking small?

So you’ve heard of the nice-guy syndrome and why nice-guys finish last.

So what’s the female equivalent nice-guy syndrome and is she as nasty and manipulating as nice-guys or is she a helpless damsel in distress?

Let’s find out…

Fear. If there is one thing that holds Nice Guys back from getting the life they want it’s fear. Fear is the filter every decision is made or not made because Nice Guys anticipate and imagine failure, rationalize being comfortable and avoid pressure and tension. They are scared fo being exposed as frauds, not meeting expectations and losing control. It is the number one thing that every Nice Guy needs to learn to manage or they will always come in last place. 

Do you find that women don’t respect you?

Or maybe if you have kids, they fail to speak in a respectful way?

Maybe your colleagues at work, your customers, or even your friends don’t treat you with the respect you deserve.

In this podcast, we will explore why women, children, and even men don’t respect nice guys.

In No More Mr. Nice Guy, Robert Glover talks about how some radical feminists claimed that men were the cause of all of the problems in the world. Or that men were merely an unnecessary nuisance.  This contributed to a climate that convinced many men that it was not OK to be just who they were.  

Let’s say you’re dating someone or in a relationship, and the infamous topic of body count comes up. What’s the magic number that would make you question if you should stay with her? Does body count really matter when you're in a relationship? How do you get over your partner's past, especially if her count is higher than yours? Should you even bother talking about body count at all?

These are some of the juicy questions I want to dive into today. Let's be real, folks. We're not living in a Disney fairytale where everyone is a chaste prince or princess waiting for "the one." People have pasts, and sometimes those pasts can include some pretty steamy and provocative things. 

Have you ever fallen for a woman you knew was bad for you? You know something is off but the combination of hotness, excitement, and possibility of a love connection keep you hooked. 

In this podcast, we’re going to look at the crisis behind why so many men are struggling to get into relationships?

Are men the problem? Or maybe women are the reason why men are single or is it society or maybe dating apps? 

Who’s fault is it and can we rescue relationships? Should we rescue relationships and you are probably thinking, what’s wrong with being single?