Chris and Lisa Archinal join the show to discuss their marriage's journey through betrayal and recovery. Chris shares how he came to strive for a relentless pursuit of sexual integrity, while Lisa reflects on her path to receiving a new heart after experiencing deep emotional pain. Together, they emphasize the significance of community support and practical steps in the healing process, showcasing a powerful narrative of redemption and faith. 

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Relentless Pursuit by Chris Archinal

Betrayal Trauma Survival Guide by Lisa Archinal

Chelsea and Layton discuss the complex relationship between pornography, moral absolutes, and the pursuit of happiness. They explore the societal shift towards individualism and the implications of defining personal truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of discipline and accountability in achieving true freedom and joy, contrasting it with the fleeting nature of superficial happiness.

Chelsea and Layton explore the complexities of temptation, particularly in the context of lust and pornography addiction. They discuss the nature of beauty, the struggles individuals face, and the influences of the World, Flesh, and Devil on these temptations. 

Chelsea and Layton explore the themes of condemnation, forgiveness, and identity in Christ. They discuss the lack of condemnation for those in Christ, the journey of forgiveness, and the importance of understanding one's true identity as a child of God. The conversation emphasizes the freedom that comes from recognizing that one's past does not define them and the transformative power of God's love and mercy.

Mark Sanders joins the show! The episode explores the false comfort that pornography provides, the generational shifts in attitudes towards sex and relationships, and the importance of community and healing in recovery. The discussion emphasizes the need for a redefined understanding of intimacy and the role of selflessness in healthy relationships. The conversation concludes with an overview of new resources aimed at healing and hope for those struggling with sexual integrity.

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Chelsea shares her personal journey of dealing with betrayal and the emotional turmoil that followed. She discusses the common feelings of self-doubt and guilt that arise after being blindsided by a partner's actions, particularly in the context of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, both for oneself and for the partner, and the need to let go of the illusion of control over others' choices. 

Chelsea and Layton unpack the concept of formation and how our daily choices shape our lives and futures. The conversation touches on the importance of being intentional about what we consume, especially for those recovering from addiction or trauma. The discussion covers the impact of music, movies, and other media on our mental and spiritual well-being, advocating for a mindful approach to content consumption. 

Chelsea and Layton discuss their recent trip to Bangkok, where they witnessed the stark realities of the sex industry and its impact on workers and customers. They reflect on the importance of perspectives gained through travel, the deep sin nature of humanity, and the compassion shown by those who have escaped the sex trades. The conversation emphasizes hope and redemption, highlighting the transformative power of God even in the darkest places.

Chelsea and Layton welcome Craig Marshall to the show! Together they explore the complex relationship between beauty, embodiment, and the impact of cultural standards and pornography.

Seeing and Seeking Embodied Beauty by Craig A. Marshall

Chelsea and Layton unpack the deep physical and emotional reactions that porn consumption and betrayal create. They share personal stories of their own struggles navigating triggers, and explore the importance of vulnerability, relationships, and communication in healing.