Come Curious

Libidos, Love and Longterm Relationships with Asa and David


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This week, Florence is joined by the ultimate love duo — Asa and David, relationship coaches, partners, and parents, who are keeping it raw, real, and ultra practical when it comes to long-term love. From mismatched libidos to conflict spirals, morning routines to raising a baby, they’re spilling the kind of advice that makes you go, “Oof… why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?”

We dive into how to fight fair (without the silent treatment or full-blown meltdowns), why honesty only works if you can handle hearing the uncomfortable stuff, and how to bring back intimacy when Netflix and exhaustion have taken over your evenings. Asa and David share their own story too — from a suitcase that turned into six months of living together, to a move abroad, to parenthood — and how they built a foundation that can hold both deep healing and wild love.
Expect laughter, vulnerability, and so many “aha” moments as we ask: what does it really take to keep desire, connection, and teamwork alive once the honeymoon fades?
Curious f**kers, if you’ve ever thought “are we normal?” when it comes to fights, mismatched sex drives, or parenting stress — this episode is your permission slip to breathe, laugh, and know you’re not alone.

ASA's Links:

IG @coachwithasa

The Boundary Blueprint - Asa Baav (free download):

www.asabaav.com/the-boundary-blueprint/

Unapologetic 2025 - Asa Baav:

www.asabaav.com/unapologetic-2025/


DAVID'S Links:

 YT ⁨@TheAuthenticMan⁩ 

IG @theauthenticman_

Breaking The Chains of Avoidance:
www.theauthenticman.net/btca-sep-2025

FREE GIFT

Why You Keep Pulling Away (Even When You Don’t Want To):
⁠www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page⁠


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