Retirement is supposed to be one of the happiest seasons of life—but it can also be one of the biggest adjustments a marriage will ever face

 After 43 years together, Ken and I discovered that retirement changed more than our schedules. It changed how we communicated, how we shared our space, how we divided responsibilities, and even how we saw each other.

In this video, I'm sharing six  lessons we learned the hard way:

✔ Love needs space.
✔ You have to get to know each other again.
✔ Communication becomes more important than ever.
✔ Roles need to be redefined.
✔ Contentment comes from building a life together—not expecting your spouse to provide all your happiness.
✔ It's about the partnership


If you're retired, about to retire, or simply wondering what this next chapter might look like, I hope our story helps make your journey a little easier. Retirement is more than leaving work. Sometimes it's learning to fall in love with the same person all over again.

Please check out my video about letting go of caring  https://youtu.be/ZLc0ffvWalM

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Are you struggling with retirement planning? Learn how to navigate life after work and avoid the common pitfalls retirees face.

Over 40% of retirees report feeling unprepared for the transition into their post-career years. This video provides practical strategies to help you navigate this major life change with confidence. Whether you are nearing retirement or have already stepped away from your career, these insights will help you build a more fulfilling retirement experience.

In this video I'll explore 6 important areas that many people overlook before they retire. From reviewing your finances for peace of mind to protecting your health, preparing for emotional ups and downs, and learning how to let go of the career you've left behind, these simple steps can help make your retirement...remarkable.

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To learn more about the4 stages of retirement, please check out this video. https://youtu.be/-YV971xqGkY

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Effective retirement planning should begin at least 5 years before you actually retire. If retirement is getting closer, it can be hard to know what you should actually be doing — and when.

In this video, I walk through a simple 5-year retirement countdown: what to focus on 5 years before retirement, 4 years before, 3 years before, 2 years before, and in your final year before you leave work.

We’ll talk about the financial retirement income plan, practical, and personal steps that can make retirement feel much less overwhelming — from checking your numbers and reducing debt to thinking through healthcare, income, lifestyle, and what you actually want retirement to look like.

If you’re within 5 years of retirement, this video will help you build a clearer plan and avoid leaving important decisions until the last minute. If you enjoy practical retirement advice and real-life ideas for making retirement remarkable, I’d love to have you subscribe to Life Starts at Retirement.

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Retirement isn't just about what you start doing—it's also about what you stop doing.

In this video, we'll explore 9 things many retirees continue doing that quietly steal happiness, peace of mind, and fulfillment. From worrying about what others think to obsessing over finances and postponing experiences, these habits can keep you from enjoying the retirement you've worked so hard to achieve. 

If you're retired, nearing retirement, or simply planning ahead, these lessons may help you make the most of the years ahead.

In this video:
✔ Stop spending money on things that don't bring joy
✔ Stop staying busy just to feel productive
✔ Stop putting off meaningful experiences
✔ Stop worrying about other people's opinions
✔ Stop neglecting your health
✔ Stop waiting for the perfect time
✔ Stop letting the news control your mood
✔ Stop obsessing over your financial plan
✔ Stop living as if you have forever

Remember: Retirement isn't the end of life—it's the beginning of living on your own terms.

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Are you holding back on your dream of seeing the world because you're worried about the cost? In this video, we are breaking down the ultimate guide to traveling the world in retirement without breaking the bank! 

After years of hard work, it's finally time to enjoy the fruits of your labor and explore. I’m sharing my best insider tips for retirees to find affordable flights, budget-friendly accommodations, cheap (but amazing) local food, and incredible free or low-cost activities. You don't need a fortune to make your retirement lifestyle truly remarkable!


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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - The Truth About Retirement Travel
01:26 - How to Score Affordable Flights (The Best Tools)
04:42 - Hidden Accommodation Gems for Retirees
07:02 - Eating Like a Local Without Breaking the Bank
09:09 - Incredible Activities That Cost Next to Nothing




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Have you ever found yourself bored in retirement? Wondering - Is this all there is to retirement?

Many retirees dream of having unlimited free time, only to discover that too much free time can sometimes lead to boredom, loneliness, and a lack of purpose.

In this video, I'm sharing 15 practical and enjoyable ways to beat retirement boredom and bring more excitement, connection, and meaning into your life. We explore how to navigate this retirement journey and offer insights on what to do.

If you are looking for motivation to overcome your retirement fears, this video is for you. Whether you've been retired for years or are just beginning this new chapter, these ideas can help you stay active, engaged, and looking forward to each day.   
Retirement isn't the end of your story—it's the beginning of a brand-new adventure.

Which tip resonates most with you? Let me know in the comments below! Subscribe for more videos about retirement lifestyle, happiness, travel, purpose, and making your retirement remarkable.

Timestamps 0:00 - Introduction
0:48 - What have you always wanted to try
1:29 - Take an online course
2:05 - Journal / Write
2:52 - Read more books
3:25 - Join a fitness class
4:00 - Walk / Hike 4:24 - Learn a new sport
4:57 - Volunteer
5:24 - Join a club / group
5:55 - Connect with friends & family
6:37 - Travel
7:21 - Be a local tourist
7:50 - Learn new skills
8:14 - Try new recipes
8:38 - Start a side hustle

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VIDEO DESCRIPTION

Retirement was supposed to be the season where life finally slowed down… but for many of us, it feels like we’re being pulled in every direction.In this video, I open up honestly about the emotional struggle of being part of the sandwich generation — trying to balance grandchildren, aging parents, marriage, travel, distance, and guilt… all at the same time.I talk about:

• feeling guilty for not seeing my grandchildren enough,
• worrying about my mom,
• struggling to balance retirement and travel with my husband Ken,
• and the emotional tug-of-war so many retirees quietly carry every day.

I’m also learning something important: wherever we are, we need to try to truly BE there. To be present in the moment instead of constantly feeling torn between the people we love.That doesn’t mean we stop caring. We still text, call, FaceTime, and stay connected. But maybe part of this stage of life is learning that love doesn’t always require us to physically be everywhere at once.

If you’ve ever felt stretched between generations, overwhelmed by responsibility, or guilty no matter what you do… this video is for you.

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Retirement is often sold as a dream, filled with white sand beaches and endless relaxation, but the reality can be quite different.

But what if some of the things we’ve been told about retirement simply aren’t true?
In this video, I’m sharing 13 of the biggest retirement lies and myths that many retirees discover after they leave work behind.
From “you’ll never feel stress again” to “you’ll sleep in every day” and “you’ll finally feel free,” retirement often looks very different than people imagine. Some surprises are wonderful. Others can leave people feeling confused, lonely, restless, or wondering why retirement doesn’t feel the way they expected.
If you are retired, close to retirement, or dreaming about retirement someday, this video may help you prepare for the emotional, mental, and lifestyle changes nobody really talks about.
Topics include:
• Retirement boredom
• Friendship changes
• Sleeping and energy
• Stress after retirement
• Freedom vs responsibility
• Travel expectations
• Feeling younger in retirement
• And more…

Retirement is not the end of life. For many people, it’s the beginning of learning who they are without the job title.

If you enjoy honest conversations about retirement lifestyle, purpose, travel, happiness, and aging well, I’d love to have you subscribe.

Timestamps
0:00 - Introduction
1:13 - You'll finally be happy
2:02 - You'll be bored
2:55 - You'll sleep in
4:00 - You won't feel stress anymore
4:40 - Retirement is the end
5:12 - You'll travel all the time
5:55 - Retirement & marriage
7:10 - You'll feel young & free
8:04 - You'll know what to do
8:57 - You won't care what others think
9:48 - You'll spend less
10:19 - You're friendships won't change
11:17 - Retirement is freedom

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Retirement isn’t just about money… it’s about purpose, connection, happiness, and creating a life you truly enjoy.

In this episode, I sit down with retirement author and speaker Martin Hurlburt to talk about what makes retirement meaningful, how fear can hold us back, and why community matters more than ever after leaving the workforce. 

 Martin also shares two incredible FREE resources designed to help retirees live happier, more fulfilling lives.

📘 Get a FREE copy of The Happy Retirement Handbook:
https://storiesofretirement.com/free-resources

📘 Buy a copy of How David Defeated Fear or watch the FREE video version:
https://howdaviddefeatedfear.com/books

One of Martin’s most powerful ideas is encouraging retirees to meet weekly in small groups to discuss one chapter or step at a time. Retirement can sometimes feel isolating — but it doesn’t have to.
Whether you're newly retired, planning retirement, or searching for more joy and purpose in this next chapter, this conversation is full of practical wisdom and encouragement.

✨ If you enjoyed this video, please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE it with someone approaching retirement.   
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How much money do you REALLY need to be happy in retirement?

It’s probably not the number you’ve been told.

In this video, we’re flipping the script on retirement planning. Because while money matters… it’s not only  what creates a truly happy retirement.
I’ll show you why the happiest retirees focus on three things most people overlook:
✔️ Meaningful relationships
✔️ A lifestyle that fits YOU
✔️ A sense of purpose after work

Too many people chase a number… and still feel lost when they get there. If you’re planning for retirement—or already there—this might completely change how you think about happiness.

What to YOU think matters for a happy retirement?  

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For great ideas about inexpensive things you can do, please check out this video...
https://youtu.be/GqWc-xS4ObU?si=L9LlxTmoHyQ5DZuZ