Listener question: I'm wondering if you have any thoughts around feedback when it's something we can't control.  I have panic attacks at work and it impacts the effectiveness of my work.  I think you're pointing to the fact that these are a learned response in the system and until I can see past the separation of my clients, this will keep happening in a non personal way.  Would it be similar, as say I lost my arm and couldn't work any more, and so my mind loops in ways that make it impossible to do this job. I know it's not the very same as with the former, it really would be impossible and with the latter if I could see more it might still be possible.