Following a devastating breakup, 50-yr-old Lorna worked with Paula in her Lure-Him-Back Program. After working the strategies to see if Jimmy was ready, willing, and able to make a commitment, following weeks of Jimmy’s silence, Lorna is struggling for the closure she feels she is missing. Lorna wants to reach out to Jimmy to hear "Why he was okay with ending things" and why he never followed up and answered her heartfelt letter. Lorna agreed to talk to Paula on this episode in an attempt to understand why Jimmy isn’t contacting her, why it appears to be so easy for him to close-the-door on their connection, and if contacting Jimmy for answers will give Lorna what she feels she needs to move on.

Women are inherently givers. They love to give of themselves, and give gifts. But as a man’s interest is determined as much by what a woman doesn’t do, as the actions she takes, this requires that gift-giving be done in a way to make a man wonder. In this episode, Paula talks about the right gifts to give to any Consumer or Buyer. Hear how scaling your spending according to where a man is on the Consumer vs. Buyer scale will help make your holidays, and your years ahead, merry and bright.

On a honeymoon morning, Paula steps out on her balcony in Jamaica to wax poetic and prophetic about marriage, millennials, and of course, about men! Research is indicating that there are so many fish in the sea that FOBO is becoming a big net in which most all are being caught, and tangled in. While waves waft in the background and her husband sleeps, Paula whispers important facts that are likely figuring into your love life.

Many times love is determined by what we do as much as it is by who we are. In this unique episode, Paula talks with Designer, Taz The Tailor, about his two great love affairs: one with his fiancee and the other with fabric. Waves waft in the background as Taz talks to Paula on a beach in Jamaica, just days after Paula's own wedding. Taz tells his uncommon journey of falling in love at first sight, only to navigate a nearly 3000 mile long-distance relationship for 18 months just a week later! Hear an amazing love story interwoven into an amazingly creative man's work life. Episode 39 will remind you that eclipses happen, and that following your heart can lead you from rags to riches!

Think it’s a lovely gesture to invite your guy home for Thanksgiving? While it feels natural, normal, and the nice thing to do, beware the trap of putting a man in a “family way” prior to him deciding he’s ready for the full-meal-deal of marriage with all the trimmings. Before you end up feeling like a Turkey, Episode 38 will explain why carving-out your own holiday weekend is a winning strategy for having a lifetime of completely committed family functions.

47-yr-old Julia was determined to “get it right” the second time around. When she discovered The Rules, Julia knew she had found something powerful to help her attain complete commitment. Julia met 53-yr-old David, online, and the two had a Rules romance that culminated in marriage a year later. But less than 8 months after walking down the aisle, David suddenly seems to wake up to the reality of marriage and abruptly leaves with nothing but an unemotional email that he made a mistake. In this episode, Julia talks to Paula in hopes of discovering what went wrong, and to find out if there is any hope in keeping a marriage together once a man has decided he wants out.

If you’ve been wondering about what Paula means by her phrase, Make Him Wonder, you can wonder no more. In this Episode, Paula unwraps what it means to use your Wonder Woman power in a way that allows you to take romantic flight. She makes the clear distinction about how to make a man wonder in a way that leads you to success, or in a way that will leave a man confused, cautious, and even too concerned to make you his “one.”

If you’ve ever dreamed of marrying in a romantic or exotic location, you want to set your GPS (Groom Positioning System) from the very first time a man lays his eyes on you. Whether or not he is “the one” for you, you’ll be in the driver’s seat of your romantic destiny and setting yourself up for success! In this Episode, Paula speaks to Destination Wedding Planner, Cookie Randall, who explains the ins and outs of going out the country for a dream location wedding. Paula explains the importance of setting yourself on the path to marriage as a possibility with each and every man you meet when single, for the best chance of making your dream, your reality.

Recently divorced, 41-yr-old single-mom, Jen, is in love again, and so is her lover, 37-yr-old, Matt. But Matt, being newly divorced himself after 15 years of marriage, wants to be free, despite loving Jen. Jen wants to know if she should wait it out and be patient while Matt plays the field, or if she should finalize things now and break both her own heart, and Matt’s. Paula coaches Jen on what is best to do and say for Jen to have the greatest possibility of having what she desires and deserves.

If you’ve never been married, or are currently divorced, you may never want to marry, or remarry. The latest research shows that men are happiest and healthiest in marriage, but that women do not sustain the same benefits until later in life. In this episode, Paula discusses why it is that while most all women do not need to be married to be completely committed, men do. Hear why anything less than a formalized commitment from a man doesn’t help you or him to have the happiest and healthiest romantic life now, or in the future.