We're concerned about men who need to finger and/or edge their female partners for such a long time that their hands might not be able to keep up. It's analogous to the problems women often have with forearm strength when offering handjobs to their partners.

We tease, but don't watch (yet) an excellent video. Next episode we'll discuss it. What should a 42-year-old virgin do to improve his plight?

Is it reasonable for one partner to have to initiate all the time? And, we discuss handjobs on airplanes.

For those of you who want to see it, here is the video discussed at the beginning of the episode:

https://ymmv.me/72/champion-shirt

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/72/suffocating-oral

https://ymmv.me/72/old-virgin

https://ymmv.me/72/pants

https://ymmv.me/72/initiating

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