What do you do if you find your husband looking at other women online?

You should talk to him about it if it's bothering you but the question is "how?"

Join Kimberly this week as she walks through the pitfalls that can come from these types of conversations and how to approach it if it's happening in your marriage. 

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Most people want out of a marriage, either because they don't feel loved, don't feel liked, or don't feel respected.

But what is respect? And how do you show it?

In marriage, we tend to feel respected if each of us feels heard, each of us feels lovely and lovable, and each one of us feels like we're part of a partnership. Problems usually arise when one spouse treats the other like a child or tries to control the other. 

That's not a partnership. That's not a good marriage.

Find out how to add more respect to your marriage in this episode of Quick Tips.

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Are you and your wife going through a separation or becoming emotionally distant? 

Are you wondering how to win your wife back? Men make three common mistakes when they feel that their wife is leaving them. From manipulation to snooping, these mistakes only wind up causing more issues. 

So what’s the best option? Make you the best you can be, so it’s harder for her to leave. 

Follow along as we break down the areas in your life that can make the most significant impact when you’re trying to win back your wife.

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Have you ever, in a relationship, begun to doubt your own mind?

You may have experienced gaslighting.

In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam explains what is and isn't gaslighting and shares ways you can overcome it.

If you're having an issue with communication in your marriage, you may want to work on SMART Contact.

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When a married person looks to another most of the time, someone of the opposite sex, to fulfill an emotional need, that is emotional cheating. Going to someone else instead of their spouse and being unwilling to give up that relationship is emotional cheating. At the bottom of it, emotional cheating is when you look to someone other than your spouse to fulfill you in areas that only your spouse should fulfill you. 

So, working with the definition that emotional affairs occur when a person NEEDS the other person in their life to provide them with something that their spouse SHOULD be giving them - how does this apply to opposite-sex friendship? 

Interestingly, research indicates that men rely more on their wives for emotional support and well-being. Actually, according to research - WOMEN are more likely to have a support system outside of their marriage whereas men are most likely to only turn to their wives in times of hardship. 

I think that begs a question for all of us to consider - am I a good friend to my spouse? Am I giving them or have I been giving them the physical and emotional support they need SO THAT they will not feel the need to look elsewhere?

This and more on this week's episode of Marriage Helper Quick Tips.

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You never thought you'd get to this place. Your bride, your best friend, the woman you fell in love with, has become someone you despise. Does this sound like you? 

If you hate your wife and are unsure of what to do about it, you've come to the right place. I'll be talking you through some of the emotions you're probably feeling and giving you three things to do to help you process what to do next in your marriage. 

Join our Certified Marriage Helper Coach Nathan as he digs into the three things you need to do if you feel hate for your wife.

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Have you been unhappy in your marriage but not sure if you're ready for divorce?

Perhaps you're thinking, "I don't want to live like this, but I'm not sure I'm ready to end this thing. Maybe we need to separate for a while to see if we can figure some things out." Maybe somebody is recommending marriage separation. 

If you're considering marriage separation, listen to this episode where Dr. Joe Beam shares some things to consider before choosing to repair or end your marriage. 

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SMART Contact is one of the pillars of what we teach at Marriage Helper. It helps to reset the communication between you and your spouse. Often, we get so caught up in the business of life or some perceived or real hurt that's come from our spouse that we may forget that we love them and need to talk to them that way. 

But how do you break out of the consistent use of the SMART Contact framework? Join our Head Coach  Melody as she talks about when to break SMART Contact.

She'll remind us to take it slow and realize that you've done a great job with more contact so be sure that you guard all the hard work that you've done.

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So you're separated, but you don't want to be. What are some positive signs during separation to look for that may indicate you can put your marriage back together? 

I was on a podcast recently where we talked about how difficult it can be to put a marriage back together when one spouse wants out. And that is likely where you are right now.

You have a spouse who wants out for whatever reason; you're separated, divorcing, whatever it might be. The podcast hosts asked how we at Marriage Helper can work with the situations we do and have such high success. Typically, counselors have a tough time working with separated couples or those getting divorced. 

They asked me how to give hope to the hopeless. I responded by saying, "There are two things that need to happen. The first is teaching people what they did that led them here. And the second is teaching them what to do differently to bring their spouse back." That's the value of our free mini-course. If anything works, what we begin teaching you in the free mini-course will. It's less than 30 minutes long, but it can help you bring your spouse back.

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My spouse is cheating. I'm hurting and emotionally exhausted. How can I stop hurting and become emotionally healthy again? In almost every conversation I have with a client, these are the statements I hear. I have so much compassion for these clients because I know all too well how that feels. 

If this is where you are emotionally, then this is for you. Some researchers say that finding out your spouse is cheating is worse than experiencing the death of someone you love. The reason is that when someone dies, we must accept that they're gone. But the pain from an affair is resurrected every time you see or think of that person. 

So the pain that you're experiencing is genuine and excruciating. So what can you do to make the pain more manageable and for you to get healthy? 

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