It's so frustrating when you come to your marriage hoping for your spouse to change to meet your needs or expectations. You work on helping them change or even demanding those changes and nothing seems to happen. What do you do with that? 

Does your spouse need to change or not? Why do you want them to change? Why don't they? How do you get your needs met when you're waiting for changes?

Today we talk through that situation and how to navigate it wisely.

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You find your spouse, decide they're “the one” and then happily ever after…right?

Is love what makes a marriage work?
In this episode, we’re unmasking the truth about what really holds a marriage together. We’ll dive into the core elements of respect, communication, commitment and forgiveness, why love isn’t always the problem (or the solution), and how understanding these differences can transform your relationship. If you’ve ever wondered why your efforts aren’t landing or why the spark feels dim, this conversation is for you.

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Emotional safety is vital to the marriage relationship. If you can't feel safe to open your heart to each other, your relationship either stays surface level or you both end up defensive and disconnected. Either way that's painful.

When you don’t feel safe, can you still practice being vulnerable?

How can you cultivate that atmosphere of safety and vulnerability in your marriage?

We dig into all this and more on today’s episode.

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Ever experience this? The husband thinks everything's fine. Nothing seems broken, no need to fix it. Meanwhile the wife is feeling disconnected, alone and unheard and it's getting serious. That's a painful and all-to-common dynamic in marriage.

We've been there and the pain is real. Why does this happen? How can you prevent this kind of dynamic in your own marriage?

Join us for our FREE Masterclass "The Marriage Spark" on January 23 6pm CT. A  replay will be available. 

We'll help you get to the root of what's got you stuck in your marriage, give action steps to take to have more effective communication, ignite your intimacy, start growing personally and as a couple as well as great ideas on bringing more fun and passion back into your marriage.


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Ever feel like your marriage is in a rut? You're going through the motions, but there's no real spark or fire anymore.

Every marriage goes through seasons like this, so you're not alone. Today we talk about navigating this dynamic and what you can do to spice things up and get that spark back!

Join us for our FREE Masterclass "The Marriage Spark" on January 23 6pm CT. A  replay will be available. 

We'll help you get to the root of what's got you stuck in your marriage, give action steps to take to have more effective communication, ignite your intimacy, start growing personally and as a couple as well as great ideas on bringing more fun and passion back into your marriage.


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In this episode we are talking about mismatched sex drives. Sex is such an important part of marriage. God designed it to connect you in a unique and beautiful way. But if one spouse wants it and the other doesn't that can create distance, pain and challenges in the marriage. It doesn't have to be that way!

What do you do if you have a higher drive than your spouse? What about if you just aren't interested? Why might this be happening? How do you communicate about this sensitive issue?

We dive into all this and more!

Wives - are you ready for more emotional and physical intimacy, more passion, connection and attraction in your marriage? Grab our Sex + Intimacy Masterclass

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In this episode we look at a destructive, but often inconspicuous weapon that husbands and wives can use in the marriage relationship: The Silent Treatment.

What does it look like? Why do we do it? How does it cause damage? How do you communicate in a healthier way?

Tune in for some practical advice on how to recognize and heal from the damage the silent weapon has done in your marriage.

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In this episode we break down what it's like to be at a "breaking point" in your marriage and how you can move forward, even in pain. We've been through this ourselves, and we believe God is able to transform what is so painful in your marriage too. 

How can you move forward when your relationship is suffering, and you feel separated and hopeless? Where do you find hope again and a path through that pain? What can you do to get connected again and heal the things that are wounding you?

Listen in to find out how to move through this painful place. On the other side of a breaking point there can be an amazing breakthrough to new possibilities in your relationship!

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Marriage can be really tough, especially when it feels like you are alone in your struggles.

Welcome to the Marriage Unmasked Podcast where Adam and Cara Nitz share real, raw, honest conversation about topics you are dealing with in your marriage.

We want you to know that you are NOT alone in your struggles, we've been there too. We've worked through plenty of highs and lows in our 18 years of marriage and often we felt just as alone and isolated as you often feel, wondering "Is anyone else going through this?"

We offer you real life examples, action steps and coaching to help you grow together in your marriage instead of falling apart. We're talking about everything relevant to you: sex and intimacy, communication, kids, stress, in-laws, masculinity and femininity, trust, inner healing....and much more.

Every Tuesday you can expect real life, honest conversation about topics you are dealing with in your everyday marriage.

We want to help you take your marriage from painful to peaceful, get deeply connected to your spouse and live fully loved by God and each other.

Get ready to change your life!!

We also offer an online marriage course and so many other helpful marriage resources at our website: https://www.thewayforlove.com/

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