Mommying While Muslim

Like almost every episode this month, there’s explicit content so please be mindful of tiny ears within listening range.
Dr. Madiha Tahseen from The Family & Youth Institute joins us today to discuss what The FYI research has learned about porn consumption in the Muslim American community, its effects, and how to prevent it. There are some super surprising facts to learn today, not the least of which is  a spike in Muslim porn viewership during the pandemic, but shocking to us: religious kids watch porn, too. 
This is neurological issue as well as a behavioral issue, so please listen in to find out how to help Muslim children and family members avoid the path to porn addiction. The first step is to listen to this episode, and the second, per Dr. Tahseen is DON’T FREAK OUT (loosely translated). No Kitty Catty about it ;).
What are porn consumption tells, resources if porn is a problem in your Muslim household, treatments, and prevention? It’s all in this episode and the Shownotes on your podcast app.
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TheFYI Website: www.fyi.orgTheFYI Porn Addiction Toolkit: https://www.thefyi.org/toolkits/porn/ TheFYI Digital Parenting Toolkit: https://www.thefyi.org/toolkits/the-fyi-digital-parenting-toolkit/ Dr. Tahseen’s book recc: The Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan TheFYI on IG: https://www.instagram.com/thefyi_org/?hl=enTheFYI on FB: https://www.facebook.com/TheFYI.org/ TheFYI on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/TheFYIdotOrg?app=desktop TheFYI on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheFYI_org?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor Web: www.mommyingwhilemuslim.comEmail: [email protected]FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim groupIG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w 

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Tina Khan joins us today to discuss her experience watching her son’s spiral into drugs and mental health crises and what it did to their family. This is definitely an episode you want to hear before you choose to let your kids listen in, but it really does merit a listen by young people to hear what drug addiction does, not just to an individual, but a family and community.
Where are we as a Muslim community in terms of supporting our young Muslims struggling with drug addiction, and just as importantly to our momcrew, are we there for our moms who have a child in crisis like this? If not now, WHY NOT. If not now, WHEN?
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Ten years of substance use research in Muslim populations: Where do we go from here?: https://quod.lib.umich.edu/j/jmmh/10381607.0010.103/--ten-years-of-substance-use-research-in-muslim-populations?rgn=main;view=fulltext Substance Abuse and Addiction in the Muslim Community: Facing Stigma and Seeking Support: https://www.ispu.org/substance-abuse-and-addiction-in-the-muslim-community/ Participate in Muslim drug treatment research study: https://betterconduct.org/ Teena’s email: [email protected]Listen to Teena on King of the World podcast: https://www.rifelion.com/shows/kingoftheworld Web: www.mommyingwhilemuslim.comEmail: [email protected]FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim groupIG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w 

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Due to the mind-numbing circumstances of this week’s Supreme Court decision, we decided to re-release our abortion episode. Right, critics, we know if our moms got abortions, we would not be born to tell the tale. Your fallacy of logic is too exhausting to even address. 

As women, moreover as mothers, we are consumed with grief and anger over what is happening on the daily to threaten our children, but now, even the bodies of our female children?  While we regroup and figure out how to take action, we want to reshare our thoughts and some facts about Islam and abortion. Check our shownotes on this one for sure to get the links. 

For all these years, the cockroaches have been warning the world about Sharia Law when their own religious laws are SO MUCH more dangerous to women. The irony is maddening. Tell us what you think about Roe v Wade being overturned in comments, but if you identify as male, you should observe and remain silent. As owners of the only set of organs to have laws created to control them, we are hypervigilant right now and have given fair warning to tread lightly or not at all.

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1. Islam and the Abortion Debate from Yaqeen Institute: https://yaqeeninstitute.org/omar-suleiman/islam-and-the-abortion-debate
   
   
2. Abortion in Islami animated information from Yaqeen Institute: https://yaqeeninstitute.org/omar-suleiman/abortion-in-islam-animated-video
   
   
3. For parenting courses on how to talk to Muslim kids about sex: @thehalalsexpert
   
   
4. State by state restrictions on abortion at Planned Parenthood: https://www.plannedparenthoodaction.org/issues/abortion
   
   
5. Muslim Kids and Sexual Activity:https://muslimmentalhealth.com/lets-talk-about-sex-and-muslim-mental-health/
   
   
6. Sex Education Reduces Unplanned Pregnancy:https://www.aclu.org/blog/reproductive-freedom/study-finds-comprehensive-sex-education-reduces-teen-pregnancy
   
   
7. Who is Alex P. Keaton?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alex_P._Keaton
   
   
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Join Zaiba and Uzma with their Eid reflections, prep, and favorite resources. We appreciate our audience following along these last two months during our episodes to prepare for Ramadan, stay strong with our worship in Ramadan as moms spread so very thin, and now we are more than happy to share our holiday with our momsisters.
Learn about easy family-friendly sadaqa projects that can be done the day of Eid. Keep up the good work and see what Zaiba is doing with the sadaqa jar money her kids have collected. Check out the shownotes for awesome links we aren’t paid for, but are happy to share for your Eid prep as well.
Uzma’s recommendations for Eid clothing:Urban Modesty dresses and abayas: https://www.urbanmodesty.com/?gclid=CjwKCAjw9qiTBhBbEiwAp-GE0T9pGcj1GAXVhoPThDat6Abfa0jbIKQIzDJHY3kAahXfbIT0VbPx0RoCIfMQAvD_BwE Aab dresses and abayas: https://us.aabcollection.com/?utm_source=Google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=USA_EN_Search_Brand_EXT&utm_medium=adwords&utm_campaign=&utm_source=&utm_content=modest_clothing_branded&gclid=CjwKCAjw9qiTBhBbEiwAp-GE0Qm-1rXte8zEyp2Tyso7TtxJFxRyP73XMt13NweViU9UvV5esu8mBRoCq7UQAvD_BwE Brands Just Pret South Asian fashion: (832) 886-4084Poshak Houston South Asian Fashion: (713)532-3232 Ask for Anas and say Uzma sent you! MWM does not get any compensation for any of these recommendations.BTS box: https://www.amazon.com/Include-Postcards-Stickers%EF%BC%8CGift-Daughter-Granddaughter/dp/B081DJ19SZ/ref=sr_1_52?keywords=bts+mystery+box&qid=1651174847&sr=8-52 Duck Donuts Virginia: https://www.duckdonuts.com/locations/ Zair Zabr Play for the Names of Allah game: https://zairzabrplay.com/ or contact her on IG @zairzabrplay Hen Khan books for representative literature: https://henakhan.com/my-books/ Iftar boxes Google doc with product links: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IMO5MbNAYziXydmbNqjB--Lf0SibVKGP_vj6ax9FyWE/edit?usp=sharing Uzma’s book recommendation: Zen Parenting by Cathy Cassani AdamsZaiba’s book recommendation: The Awakened Family by Dr. Shefali Tsabary and Sapiens by Yuval Noah HarariWeb: www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com Email: [email protected]FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim groupIG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w 

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Ustadha Safiya Ravat of Suhbah Institute reminds us how to focus on our Ramadan as moms–beyond the food, the rat race, the decor, and all the things we have to continue doing–to build our safe spiritual spaces with Allah SWT. 

Uzma sniffs a lot in this episode after Ustadha shares the tafseer of a commonly misquoted and misused hadith. We couldn’t cut out all that helpful audio from our guest. This one’s for all the girls who grew up being told they didn’t belong in the masjid.

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1. Suhbah Institute Website: https://suhbah.com/
2. Suhbah Institute IG: @suhbah_institute
3. Ustadha Safiya’s book recommendations
    
   1. The Character of the Muslim Woman: Women's Emancipation during the Prophet's Lifetime (Islamic Economics) by Abd Al-Halim Abu Shuqqah
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   1. Secrets of Divine Love by A. Helwa
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6. Ustadha Safiya’s YouTube recommendations:
    
   1. Prophet Yusuf series on YouTube: https://youtu.be/t2CpKjogBT8 
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   1. People of the Cave “Men of Angelos”: https://youtu.be/tdnJCaMPzyI 
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9. Ustadha Safiya’s podcast recommendation
    
   1. The Quantum Chronicles: https://thequantumchronicles.com/ 
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We are so honored to have Ustadha Hosai Mojaddidi talk to us about impediments to spiritual consistency in our lives. While some folks are trying to get through Ramadan day by day, we are excessively worried about the month coming to a close and not having learned anything. Y’all know we are an anxious duo at the podcast! How do we carry our Ramadan routines forward past this blessed month and not lose the spiritual high?

Let’s talk about train cars, the myth of parental ownership, suhbah (spiritual companionship, which is coming up later this month, by the way!), acts of worship we can rely on no matter our stage of motherhood, and insha’Allah walk away feeling energized to maintain the magic of Ramadan, keeping up steam for the rest of the year. Allahuma ameen.

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1. Hosai Mojaddidi’s Website: http://hosaimojaddidi.com/about/ 
2. Hosai Mojaddidi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hosaimojo/?hl=en 
3. Hosai Mojaddidi on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hosaimojaddidi/ 
4. The Golden Quran app: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.goldenquran.freesoft&hl=en_US&gl=US 
5. Ustadha Hosai’s book recommendation: The Jewels of the Quran Imam Ghazali
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 | Zaiba and Uzma discuss their Ramadan 2022 plans and fears because let’s not continue saying “the pandemic is over” and go back to normal. It’s still a worrisome time, but less stressful alhamdulillah, and to that end, what does their mindset look like after preparing last month with their Nutrition & Fitness series? We hope you find yourself less stressed about “doing it all” this month.  Bonus content about QuadMShops and our experience meeting listeners for the first time. We want to make it a first of many so take a listen to what we want to do in the future with and for our audience, and our potential audiences! Excuse allergy voices and discussions about luscious dishes in the community that will have your mouth watering. If you’re fasting, maybe listen to it AFTER sunset!  Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Amazon Music or ask Alexa. Subscribe today and share an episode with a momsister.

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1. Uzma’s book recommendation: The Enneagram and You by Gina Gomez
2. Zaiba’s book recommendations: NLP: The Essential Guide to Neuro-Linguistic Programming by Tom Dotz, Go Back to Where you Came From by Wajahat Ali, Apples Never Fall by Liane Moriarty, and Dare to Lead by Brene Brown
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Dr. Tina Siddiqua, MD explains some remarkably frightening stats and trends she’s noted as a pediatrician, that fuel both her counseling of parents and kids, as well as how she shows up for her own. They also inform her often funny Tik Toks and IG Reels.

Follow traumatic relationships with food and body image to her fitness journey as the youngest after a baseball lineup of brothers. A self proclaimed foodie, both food and fitness comprise her lifestyle now. Leading up to Ramadan, she teaches us how to address both our kids’ and our health needs during the holy month.

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1. Tahrin Siddiqua’s Website: https://www.nwcypressmd.com/
2. Tahrin Siddiqua on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fitdoctor.siddiqua/
3. Tahrin Siddiqua on TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/fitdoctor.siddiqua/
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FitMuslimah Mubarakah Ibrahim tells us about what keto is today, and what it is NOT. Specifically, how is a ketogenic lifestyle (y’all know we don’t like to say “diet” on the podcast!) conducive to fasting in Ramadan in particular? Ketosis is our friend when it comes to fulfilling our worship goals during this holy month. There’s a reason FitMuslimah calls Ramadan “Shahr al Ketosis” (month of ketosis)!

Trace traditional diets of colonized people and learn the origins of our foods, and how those were forced to change to the detriment of global health. Find out FitMuslimah’s recommendations on the best food choices for our bodies to prevent metabolic syndrome and diseases associated with it, which is easier than we think. The key is “insulin spikes.” Tune in at 6pm EST to learn how to choose wisely.

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4. FitMuslimah’s book recommendation: Will by Will Smith
5. Another book recommendation: You Got Anything Stronger by Gabrielle Union
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Mona Khalil, MS, RD, LD reminds us today about the prophetic model of eating for LIFE, not just for Ramadan. When did we put the role of pleasure on food when it’s supposed to be fuel for our work and worship? 

Let’s bust the myths of “making up for lost calories” and hear some mad cool mom hacks to prepare for Ramadan and mommying on the daily so fasting doesn’t shock our systems. There are some life-changing recommendations on where we wish we’d known before! K.I.S.S., mamas!

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3. The Whole Brain Child https://www.amazon.com/Whole-Brain-Child-Revolutionary-Strategies-Developing/dp/0553386697 
4. White nectarines: https://specialtyproduce.com/produce/White_Nectarines_4211.php 
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