On retreat this week with a special and recurring guest, Rubina Cohen, Zaiba and Uzma review the last 6 months of podcasting: what they’ve learned, what else is coming, and how they plan to improve to suit their Muslim American mom sisters.

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1) The Conscious Parent by Dr. Shefali Tsabary, PhD

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Zaiba and her husband take time to sit down and talk about the importance of being on the same page while raising children.   How they set goals for themselves, their children and learn their secret to raising kids that are not attached to their phones. 

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This week, Uzma's pre adolescent son, Usman, provides points for Muslim American moms to be successful and operate better on their day to day. See if you think what he says is just for Muslim American moms or not, and maybe you'll find a pleasant surprise.
There are plenty of revelations for some here, at least for those who have been raised with some "back home" style parenting, but most of this young man's sage advice is now common knowledge, and we hope to break cycles of negative parenting with better tools. We're all a work in progress. Even better is the great news Usman offers about his own experiences with discrimination at school, and we can only hope that every Muslim kid in this country feels the same way.
A nice pearl today is a quick guide for the Muslim American, or any, family, so make sure you listen to the end! Don't forget to rate and review this episode, or DM/PM on FB or IG.

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Come unpack all the guilt Muslim moms feel and what we can do about it. We try to prove that everything we feel guilty about is made up, and remind ourselves about the Thought Model as well as, oh yeah, Allah's promise to us! Explore the limited resources we have to learn more about Muslim mom guilt from the professionals (why aren't more people studying this?!?!?), but mostly feel better about the choices we have to make on a daily basis for our families.

Links:
1) Definitions and clinical info: https://www.mindfulreturn.com/mom-guilt/
2) Information on Muslim mom guilt that is a unique resource for us: https://productivemuslim.com/guide-for-working-muslim-moms/
3) A layperson's perspective on mom guilt and deciding between work or being SAHM ( also one of the WORST articles we’ve ever read on the subject): https://muslimmatters.org/2010/06/16/my-dear-sister-submit-for-your-babys-sake/
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Zaiba and Uzma explore the mom bully and how she is definitely one of the toxic people in our lives. They discuss how to identify bullying behavior some adults demonstrate, review instances of being bullied themselves, and how to avoid becoming one. The mom field is supposed to elevate all of us, not push anyone down! How can we work so hard to raise awesome humans and not strive to be the same ourselves?!?!? This is one you want to listen to until the end because there are a lot of pearls in it to attain our best Muslim mom selves.
Thanks to the wonderful listener who asked us to talk about this today. We welcome more ideas and concerns you want us to discuss.

Links:
1)  Rising above mean moms: https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/dorathy-gass/i-was-bullied-by-another-mom-so-i-put-on-a-smile-and-rose-above_a_23347952/
2) 7 Ways to deal with moms that bully other mothers: https://www.verywellfamily.com/ways-to-deal-with-mean-moms-that-bully-4125597
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After a singular incident, Zaiba and Uzma talk about what it feels like to be invisible despite showing up every day in a million big and small ways for our kids. They recount what it feels like to be "the one" as well as "the none" in the family. Maternal identity, being seen, being appreciated and the opposite of all those show up on today's episode. Review some more thought models and come feel better about our common pitfalls and how we get out of those negative spirals through prayer and reflection.

Links:
1) Nicole Johnson's article on several sites: https://justbetweenus.org/relationships/parenting-advice/the-invisible-mother/
2) Mothers' rights in Islam: https://justbetweenus.org/relationships/parenting-advice/the-invisible-mother/
3) Molly DeFrank's article about 4 kids and all the browsers was actually on "Scary Mommy": https://www.scarymommy.com/what-to-expect-four-kids/
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Tara Ijai  has been the Muslim poster child of combating Islamaphobia and all hate since the Women's March. Her journey to make the world a more loving place has been original and necessary, affecting how she lives as a Muslim American and how she raises her kids in this environment. Early on she made the front page of USA Today on 2/27/17 right under POTUS' picture! Her latest projects in El Paso are inspiring, as is this conversation about how to be true to oneself. Check out her website and get your own original Love Glasses. get 10% off with code "mommying," and take the Love Pledge to see the world through love.

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1) Get your Love Glasses with code "mommying" for 10% off today: https://www.myloveglasses.com/
2) Subscribe to LG On YouTube, or just check out their special project in El Paso: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxkqUPZWNog1d08ZU2vrYdQ
3) FB: Love Glasses Revolution
4) FB: Love Rebels Unite
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1) Check out the MIST website to find the region closest to you to get started/join a team at your school: www.getmistified.com
2) Email for more info on MIST: [email protected]
3) Find out more about MWM and read our blog on "Voices": www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com
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6) Email us questions or ideas you have for the show: [email protected]
7) Watch Netflix "Resurrection" to see how a famous international series STOLE the MIST logo! We were ROFL!

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How are we all doing the same thing, how are we different? We will talk about lunch prep, to snack or not to snack, "over" scheduling, bulletproof backpacks, and protractors, school dinner nights, and what back to school brings to our lives (and sometimes takes from it!). Join us to commiserate or to feel better about how you do things at home.

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5) Google "bulletproof backpack" to get a bunch of companies selling these--Zaiba thought about it, Uzma did not!

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In this episode of Mommying While Muslim, Zaiba goes on location to her parent’s house.  That’s where she sits down with her mother and mother-in-law to ask them provoking questions about mothering, Islam, and America.  Zaiba hears for the first time exactly why her mom converted from Christianity to Islam and why her mother-in-law’s first experience in the United States was so disappointing. 

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