In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, hosts Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary explore relationships that are “not quite open, not exactly closed.” They debate whether hall passes protect commitment or plant resentment, how couples negotiate soft-swap vs. full-swap boundaries, and whether emotional monogamy can survive sexual freedom. A listener story about balancing free-pass trips with looming threesome jealousy illustrates how fuzzy rules can test trust. 

Share your own monogam-ish wins, fails, or questions at coffeeandcleavage.com.