The Unmasked Project

My Polycule Imploded & I Got Locked Out (Literally)


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🎧 Welcome back to The Unmasked Project!

This week, Layla sits down with Naat—a fan-turned-social-media-slaya—for a brutally honest deep dive into her very first (and very dramatic) polycule.

What starts with a locked door at a lifestyle party ends in heartbreak, healing, and a hot mess of jealousy, boundaries, and group chat tension. Naat spills everything: the friend-group-turned-polycule, watching her boyfriend hook up across the room, and the moment she realized… maybe poly just isn’t her vibe.

But it’s not all drama—there’s flirting, forgiveness, and a whole lot of boots-the-house-down Gen Z slang. (Yes, we’re saying Boots now. Slay is over. Apparently.)

Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or ENM-curious, this episode is your permission slip to feel it all—jealousy, joy, and the chaos in between.


💥 In this episode:

  • From fan to team member: how Naat joined The Unmasked inner circle

  • Locked out at a lifestyle party and finding polyam fam vibes

  • First-time polycule: roommate romance and the friend group fallout

  • Watching your ex hook up in the same room—and staying chill(ish)

  • The unsexy truth about poly breakups and staying in the same friend circle

  • Cuck queen confessions, background checks, and bad Twitter men

  • Why communication is everything—and honest communication is more

  • Boundary fails, party faux pas, and that time Naat turned the lights on mid-gangbang

  • Taking people as they are—not their potential (ouch)

  • Layla’s take on poly growth, heartbreak, and loving someone through their breakup

⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 – Fan turned social media slay-ess: Meet Naat

0:54 – Gen Z slang audit: Slay is out, Boots is in

1:24 – That one lifestyle party with a locked door (and fate)

2:51 – Nat’s first polycule: friends, hookups, and chaos

4:30 – Breakups, boundaries, and bad communication

6:07 – Poly heartbreak: "Maybe this isn’t for me"

7:17 – Dating the roommate and hooking up in the friend group

9:05 – Trying to stay friends after a messy breakup

10:57 – The “I walked in on them” moment—ouch

13:04 – Layla on poly, soulmates, and the “Devil Woman” effect

16:32 – Jealousy vs. anger and how to talk through it

20:05 – Being cute-jealous vs. being a problem

23:34 – Cuck queen problems and red tape reclaiming

26:05 – Boundaries, broken agreements, and too-long hookups

30:36 – Light switch mishap during a birthday gangbang

31:50 – Advice for poly newbies: Figure out your why

33:20 – When your partner sets time limits on your other dates

35:00 – Condoms, double standards, and imaginary flowers

38:30 – Favorite part of the lifestyle? Flirting. Duh.

40:00 – Finding your crew and building the community you want

43:00 – Final thoughts on jealousy, love, and lessons learned


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