Subscribe in a reader When we break up with a narcissist we are hurt, sad, confused and most likely wondering what just happened. The urge to not break that connection on social media with your X is so tempting isn’t it. Well it’s really important to go grey rock and totally disconnect from all social […] The post Narcissism Social Media appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.

Subscribe in a reader Financial abuse leaves victims in turmoil, friends judge victims for allowing this to happen. 85% of domestic abuse cases involve financial abuse. Victims feel shame, confusion, fear. Once you understand the parts within yourself that allowed you to be controlled by the financial abuse of the narcissist, you will not only […] The post Were you FINANCIALLY Abused by a Narcissist? appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.

Subscribe in a reader Once your relationship with a narcissist comes to a bitter end (they all do) they are very much like the wicked witch of the west deploying these flying monkeys. Picture a puppeteer pulling strings to smear you, lie about you and control you just one last time. They will use your […] The post What Are Flying Monkeys? Narcissist | Red Flag appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.

Early warning signs of Narcissist abuse. When you are on a journey to understand what the heck just happened its important to l look at the warning signs of abuse. Narcissists seem to all display the same signs the same flags and patterns. Your first step to healing yourself after narcissist abuse and being a victim is to see patterns. I hope this helps anyone who listens to my story and can see something in your narcissists pattern that can guide your to heal and know the flags of narcissist abuse so it never happens again.

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Subscribe in a reader   Is there a way to protect yourself from the revenge of a narcissist? Yes know what to look for and learn to react different both in the face of the terror they are trying to pull but also protect your mind from allowing them to take control of your mind. […] The post Protect Yourself Against the Revenge of a Narcissist appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.

My new lens is picking up examples of narcissistic behaviors that I read about in psychology today. Then examples came to my head of things I missed. Picking through the garbage of your brain learn to identify so you can protect yourself from a narcissist. Four narcissistic behaviors as common as we now know they are were things we excepted as differences. We reacted, we were pissed but we listened to their excuses and forgave them. These memories have to be found. Dig deep.

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This is not a political video I am going to show you the characteristics of a narcissist. The red flags that Donald Trump has been accused of showing. I will talk about what happens from a victims point of view. No matter if he is or if he isn't we need to raise awareness about this epidemic and if I have to look for a silver lining then he has helped our mission to bring awareness to this dangerous mental disorder.

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Subscribe in a reader Narcissists have the spectrum of everything – so you could get a Narc that likes to give gifts but uses them as a tool. or you can get one that has no idea what gift to get you because they do not “KNOW” you really so its very impersonal. WEBSITE – […] The post Narcissists Gift Giving Red Flag appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.

Once your relationship with a narcissist comes to a bitter end (they all do) they are very much like the wicked witch of the west deploying these flying monkeys. Picture a puppeteer pulling strings to smear you, lie about you and control you just one last time. They will use your peeps, your friends, your family and get them to do the work for them. This tactic is called flying monkeys. These people that get recruited to further damage you and your reputation have also been tricked by the narcissist to do their bidding.

Be careful and look at friends and family with a different lens because they will only add insult to injury.

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The last thirty days I have learned more about myself then I have learned in 55 years. I have learned new terms, a new language and YouTube has been here to teach me. I feel like I have gotten a lifetime of knowledge by watching and listening to real people's stories. I learned what a narcissist is, what a sociopath is, what a codependent is and what it means to be a victim. I would never have said the word victim about myself but the more I learn the clearer it becomes. I have heard that it's not my fault, as a child in a very disfunctional house I learned to cope in a few ways. First by hiding my head in the sand, most people say this is the only reason I did survive when the rest of my family fell. If I went along thinking that life was fine... If I loved men as much as I could surely they would live me back.

My friends who have loved me for all my life, know I would do anything for them. Know my heart is true and loyal. I am successful in my self taught career, I have an amazing child about to graduate college and my life seems to be filled with drama.

My mantra for years has been not my monkeys, not my circus. Yet the drama followed me, I would say- I know CRAZY! And trust me I knew it so well I was sucked up in it and kept lowering my bar, lower and lower because I became afraid to love. So less was ok, this way I wouldn't get hurt. Save my heart by keeping it locked with a key. Still enjoying my friends and my life I have made for myself.

I was a target for two narcissist men and I never knew it. I fell for every trick in the book.

This is my first video on the red flags of a narcissist - love bombing. These are real examples of how I was fooled by a narcissist. I hope that if one person is able to find something that turns a light on for them that this coming out is worth it.

Trust me as a business owner I fear this exposure this deep part of me I have hidden so long. Join me on this journey as I learn and teach all that I learned.

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