To understand how to spot a narcissist, there are many stages, behaviors, patterns that a target of narcissist abuse will learn in the healing process. This video is a summary of how to spot a narcissist by their behavior. This is your best protection but it is something that you must REALLY understand until your narc-radar is charged up.

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Financial abuse leaves victims in turmoil, friends judge victims for allowing this to happen. 85% of domestic abuse cases involve financial abuse. Victims feel shame, confusion, fear.

Once you understand the parts within yourself that allowed you to be controlled by the financial abuse of the narcissist, you will not only up-level to a self that is beyond anything you imagined, you will also bring forth more abundance into your life then you ever had previously.

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Recipe to understand LOVEBOMBING on Facebook. Narcissists start by lovebombing a target and one of the places they like to play in is Facebook. They start by liking all your old pictures, they were stalking you. then they start to like your friends as they leave a comment on one of your posts. make no mistake they are not interested in the pretty picture you just posted instead they are seeing which of your friends they can create a flying money with. Someone to use later as they tell them you are crazy.

This pattern will increase over time until the get to the discard stage and you will be wondering why aren't you liking all my stuff anymore. You may also find that your narcissist starts to like everything of other men or woman and this leaves you wondering if you did something wrong.

This is all part of the plan of making you crazy later.

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When we break up with a narcissist we are hurt, sad, confused and most likely wondering what just happened. The urge to not break that connection on social media with your X is so tempting isn't it. Well it's really important to go grey rock and totally disconnect from all social media and here is why...

So you have been involved in a relationship with a narcissist - sorry. The first step is to get yourself educated - what just happened and how can you help yourself heal. During this process you are going to want to get revenge. Its human and perfectly normal when someone hurts you in such a grand way. This video will guide you to the best revenge on a narcissist.

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We have trusted too long, we could see that things didn't add up. Yet we forgave, we gave them another chance, we took them back. It is in the understanding of the lies that narcissists tell that we find strength to stand up and free ourselves.

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I often hear the question of does a narcissist cheat? or why do narcissists cheat? what is cheating to you or i is different with a narcissist because they have no commitment in their sick little minds, so spreading the love is really just "getting supply". They have shown you signs and you might have missed them or you might have listened to their pathetihic excuses, or if you really have a gem of a narcissist he probably blamed you for them cheating!!! THIS IS NEVER EVER TRUE - a narcissist cheats to always keep new supply in the wings. learn how to recognize the signs and how to protect yourself.

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It is easy to blame the next supply we were probably taught this in junior high. This world we have lived in is quite different because your Narc will NEVER BE ABLE TO LOVE!!!! That is just a fact so this next supply, this next victim, this next target is being tricked, lied to, cheated on and probably passed his STD's. Your narc will dump them as horrifically as she dumped you. Pity the next supply because they are a victim soon.

Narcissists have the spectrum of everything - so you could get a Narc that likes to give gifts but uses them as a tool. or you can get one that has no idea what gift to get you because they do not "KNOW" you really so its very impersonal. Learn more here

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The last act or the grand finale of any play is always the best part, think of all the movies you are surprised at the ending. Disappointed that you "hoped" for a different ending. Well if a narcissist has decided he or she is done with you, they will do unthinkable things to protect their lies. Do not forget a narcissist is an actor, a con artist and a liar. So you become a risk to them, sometimes leaving the victim fearing for their life.

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