Episode Overview

In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans. Dive into BIPOC kink history, subspace and domspace neurochemistry, neurodiverse pleasure, somatic practices, pet play, foot play, anal play, and trauma-informed, consent-based kink education.

Learn practical tools, cultural insights, and safety guidance for exploring kink in a mindful, therapeutic way.

Topics Covered🌍 BIPOC History & Cultural Lineage

African, Indigenous, and non-Western roots of kink

Yoruba deity Oshun, rituals, trance, and altered states

Why cultural acknowledgment matters in modern BDSM

Understanding subspace and domspace

The “BDSM chemical cocktail”: dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, adrenaline

Aftercare to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop

Parallels with meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy

How autistic and ADHD individuals thrive in kink

Sensory needs, structure, and nervous system regulation

Identity exploration and self-expression

Puppy, kitten, pony, cow play, and more

Safety and confidence in animal headspace

Masks, hoods, and ritual gear as identity tools

Psychological and somatic benefits

Safety, hygiene, and party/event etiquette

Hygiene, prep, body-safe materials, and pleasure mapping

Trauma-informed educational approach

Clinical, non-sexual medical play explained

Trauma-aware role-play and consent demos

Perfect for anyone curious about:

BDSM safety

Neurodiverse kink practices

Trauma-informed intimacy

Somatic pleasure exploration

Cultural history in kink

This episode is concise, informative, and actionable — grounded in sex education, historical insight, and safety practices.

🧠 Subspace, Domspace & Neurochemistry🧩 Neurodiversity & BDSM🐾 Pet Play & Role-Play👣 Foot Play Basics🍑 Anal Play & Pegging🩺 Medical Play & Educational Role-PlayWhy ListenConnect with the Guests

The Commandant — Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Educator & Kink Historian
Website: hausofthecommandant.com

Patreon Bonus

Listen to the full-length, uncensored episode on Patreon including extended kink education, behind-the-scenes insight, and intimate conversations not included in the free version.
Access the entire Kink Series for just $10/month.

Additional Resources Mentioned

Shameless Care — Use code PLEASME for $15 off at-home sexual health testing : https://shamelesscare.com/ 

SDC.com — Use code 37340 for a free trial membership

World Vision — Donation links for survivors of the recent typhoon & earthquake :  https://www.worldvision.org/ 

Eve’s Substack & Patreon for Q&A, workshops, and exclusive content

pleaseme.online : https://pleaseme.online/ 

patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast : http://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast 

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