The Nice Guy Show

Nice-Guys Are Afraid To Decide. How Your Indecision Is Costing You Everything


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You think you're being careful and thoughtful. She thinks you're weak and can't lead.

In this episode of The Nice Guy Show, Ari, Chuck, and Faisal expose how indecisiveness is secretly destroying your relationships and keeping you trapped in mediocrity. From Ari's embarrassing wedding speech where he called himself "the Obama of the relationship" (the deliberator), to Chuck's printer research marathons, to Faisal walking his hangry date around for an hour looking for the "perfect" restaurant.
Here's what you'll discover:

Why nice guys mistake overthinking for wisdom (and how it backfires)
The brutal truth about being "Captain Indecisive" in your marriage
How fear of making the wrong choice guarantees you'll make no choice at all

Why asking "what do you think?" kills attraction faster than anything else
The restaurant power move that separates leaders from followers
How successful people make decisions with incomplete information (and why you need 100%)

Why your "committee of mediocrity" is keeping you stuck
The bedroom decisiveness test most nice guys fail miserably
The wake-up call you need: While you're researching and deliberating, other men are taking action and getting results. Your indecisiveness isn't protecting you from failure - it IS the failure.
Ari shares how he burned the boats on his therapy practice to go all-in on coaching. Chuck reveals how his wife became the family decision-maker (and why that's a problem). Faisal breaks down why differentiated men decide quickly while enmeshed nice guys stay paralyzed.
Stop asking everyone else what you should do. Start trusting yourself enough to choose.

Connect with Faisal Khokhar:
https://masculine.co/
https://5fractures.com/
https://www.instagram.com/masculinecharisma/

Connect with Chuck Chapman: 
https://www.chuckchapman.com/
https://www.instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/

Connect with Dr. Ari Graff:
https://drarigraff.com/
www.youtube.com/@AriGraff

Join Dr. Robert Glover’s Integration Nation, a worldwide community of men doing better:
https://integrationnation.net/

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