Once you become parents, you have to remember that you have to find the time to work on your marriage no matter how tired you are.  

If you start to neglect your relationship, you begin to lose the connection between you and your husband.  

Make sure that you find time each week. to do something together even if it is just cuddling up on the sofa.

Take advantage of grandparents offering to have the children for sleepovers, plan on having a special date night with no need to get up early for work the next day, make the most of the time together. 

Being a parent is a full-time job, but everyone deserves needs a break and time for self-care.