"I was out over the weekend and almost made a BIG, dumb purchase for myself. My wife would have killed me if I had bought what I wanted. Now, I can't stop thinking about it. I don't want to tell you what it is because she may be listening and will know it's me writing in. My older brother says I should just buy it because it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. My younger brother says I should ask for permission first. What would you do if you were me? Is it easier to ask for forgiveness than permission? I'm confused and don't know what to do."

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