"For the sake anonymity, let's say I'm Ashley and he's Cody. We met last year during my 18 month long divorce, I was finally officially divorced in February so we were officially in an relationship in March. We cannot move in together due to the way it's written in my divorce agreement so we are considering eloping in August so that we can live together and start our lives together. We each have 1 kid that are close in age and get along amazingly. Do we secretly elope or wait? To add we are at an age that if we want to have a kid together we need to do it sooner rather than later which is another reason we're considering eloping soon so that we can start trying for a baby. After being with the wrong person for nearly 10 years this feels so right but I'm worried about everyone thinking I'm rushing into this too much."

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