America's last election cycles have been plagued with tantrums, immaturity and perhaps most notably: aggrievement. Everybody you talk to will tell you that they have it the hardest. They'll tell you that their problems ought to be taken care of first. It's just what's fair. But when everyone starts crying wolf, how are we supposed to know where the actual problem is? Maybe it's time we got some perspective back and gave our attention to the vulnerable people who really need it. Pamela Paul from the New York Times joins the show.