Welcome to Week 9 of our Summer of Stories series! This Summer we have been featuring stories of incredible moms that have endured significant challenges. Through these stories, we pray you will remember that God is faithful and always with you through life’s most challenging moments. 

In this week’s story, you will hear from the hilarious and wise Karen Stubbs. How many people can say they married a Top Gun fighter pilot? Well, Karen married that guy we saw in the movies. However, she very quickly realized that the cute uniform wasn't that cute when he was away most days of the month.

Karen’s story is one of raising her young four kids without support. So many of you know this road - whether you are a single mom, have a husband that travels or works often or even if you live from friends and community. Karen shares the very honest truth of what God did when she felt completely alone and isolated in motherhood.

Make sure you get to the end when Karen shares about parenting very different personalities. She explains why it’s so important that we really know how our kids operate and the benefits of parenting them with strengths in mind. 

I am praying Karen’s story reaches so many moms that feel in over their heads and you find reassurance that God is with you every step of the way. Karen is now a grandmother and runs a global ministry for moms. She has mounds of wisdom and truth that you will enjoy!

In this episode, we discuss:

• How to parent alone from single parenting to a traveling husband
• How to practically survive in a world with little support and community
• When you realize your husband cannot meet your needs
• How to parent kids with unique personalities
• When your child questions their faith

Love, Courtney

00:00

Introduction and Background

02:53

Challenges of Military Life

08:01

Relying on God to Meet Needs

11:03

Impact on Children and Marriage

14:25

Understanding and Parenting According to Temperaments

20:13

Navigating the Challenges of Raising Kids in the Church

24:16

Finding Hope in Difficult Circumstances

31:49

Practical Parenting Advice from 'The Survival Guide to Motherhood'

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Resources from today’s show:

Birds On A Wire Moms

Wire Talk Podcast

Survival Guide to Motherhood by Karen Stubbs

Pinc Ministries with Ashley Hicks

Temperament & Personality Quiz

Parenting Together

NLT Student Thinline Reference Bible

Hope for your Homeschool

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