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  • Data and women's deaths - an unacceptable reality

    In this episode, as part of our work during the 16 Days of Activism against gender based violence, we talk about something a bit different, and difficult. We talk about the premature deaths of women who’ve had more than one child removed from their care.  The episode explores how Pause scoping exercises started finding women who had had more than one child removed who had died before we were able to offer them support. Most of these women died prematurely. We ask why they died and what can be done about it to make sure women aren't dying in the future. 

    We hear from Jules Hillers, CEO of Pause, Ellen Marks, Director of Practice and Learning at Pause, Anna Smith, CEO of One25 and Helen Daniel, National Scoping Lead at Pause. Although we don't have all the answers this episode starts the conversation about why women are dying prematurely and what can be done about it. 

    You can find out more on Pause website www.pause.org.uk and more about One25 and their work on their website at www.one25.org.uk.

    This episode is dedicated to those 233 women who have died, as well as all the women who have died who were known to Pause Practices across the UK. 

    21 min
  • Exploring Domestic Abuse

    In this extended podcast episode, to coincide with the beginning of 16 Days of Activism against Gender-based Violence, we are discussing Domestic Abuse and highlighting less visible forms of abuse.  We are joined by Teresa Williams, Head of Media Relations & Communications at Women's Aid and Dr Nicola Sharp-Jeffs OBE, Founder and Director Surviving Economic Abuse and will hear from two women working with Pause about their experience of Domestic Abuse.  

    *Trigger warning* This podcast episodes discuss issues which may cause distress to some including graphic descriptions of domestic abuse. 

    If you need support or are affected by any issues raised you can get support below:

    https://www.womensaid.org.uk/

    https://survivingeconomicabuse.org/

    28 min
  • Things are different now

    In the last of our podcast miniseries, we are joined by clinical psychologist, trainer, and author, Karen Treisman and Pause Chief Executive, Jules Hillier. We will be reflecting on the lockdown experience, creativity, and wellbeing during the pandemic, as well as thinking about what things we might not want to go back to 'normal'. You will also have the chance to hear poetry created by women and practitioners during lockdown. 

    Joined by Karen Treisman clinical psychologist, trainer, and author. Follow @dr_treisman and Jules Hillier, Chief Executive of Pause. Follow @rosylight.

    Hosted by Clare Laxton
    Produced by Louis Vine
    Music by Ben Jacob
    Editing by Will Jacob

    19 min
  • Relationships with Children

    In this episode, we hear from Vanessa and Gemma, two women working with Pause, about their experience of contact with their children and why the system of contact in the UK needs to change for the better. We are also joined by Lisa Harker, Director of the Nuffield Family Justice Observatory talking about what we already know needs to change and what we can learn about relationships with children from the COVID-19 experience.

    *Trigger warning* podcast episodes discuss issues which may cause distress to some.

    Joined by Vanessa and Gemma, women working with Pause and Lisa Director of the Nuffield Family Justice Observatory. Follow @NuffieldFJO / @lisa_harker.
    Hosted by Clare Laxton. Follow @ladylaxton.
    Produced by Louis Vine
    Music by Ben Jacob
    Editing by Will Jacob

    www.pause.org.uk / #PauseandListen / @PauseOrg

    17 min
  • The difference a relationship makes

    In the first ever Pause Podcast episode, we hear from Beth (not her real name), a woman working with Pause and her practitioner about the difference positive relationships can have. From building trust, working together and being creative – it is all about relationships and taking the time to Pause and Listen.

    *Trigger warning* podcast episodes discuss issues which may cause distress to some including domestic abuse and mental health issues.

    Joined by 'Beth' a woman working with Pause and Felica Cunningham, Pause Practitioner at Pause Greenwich
    Hosted by Clare Laxton. Follow @ladylaxton
    Produced by Louis Vine
    Music by Ben Jacob
    Editing by Will Jacob

    www.pause.org.uk / #PauseandListen / @PauseOrg

    18 min

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Pause and Listen aims to provide a platform for women who no longer have children in their care, to share their stories and experiences. In each episode, we talk about an issue that affects their…

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