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Pegging, Fetishes & Sex Toys

0:05

You're listening to the sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the sex of Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your co host Brandon. We're here with my always lovely other half to Dr. Jess. Hello. How are you?

0:23

I'm amazing. I'm kind of like I'm on top of the world because my work is getting back to normal. I got to host a couple's retreat last weekend over in the UK. And that felt so damn good. I mean, you were there. You know, you weren't at the retreat. But you were at the bar after with me.

0:39

Yeah, and you were definitely in great spirits. And I got to walk around London, which was amazing. Because London is an amazing city.

0:46

It really is a cool city. All the Marvel they took from all over the world made it a beautiful beautiful place a story for another day. But yeah, I'm feeling really good. It feels just I'm sure everybody's having kind of small victories as we slowly very very slowly inch our way back to some normalcy depending on where where folks are living. And yeah, I guess we probably get these glimmers of hope or excitement and then I'm sure there are of course setbacks as well. But I'm also off to Boston tomorrow, or Harvard sex week.

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