When you become a mum, you think that your instincts will kick in. Something deeply ingrained in your being will tell you how best to respond to your baby, how to work out their cries and when they need comfort. These days our instincts can get buried under the mountains of information about how to do parenting 'right'. Parenting educator and lactation specialist Pinky McKay explains why instinct is so important to mothers, and how you can tap into it if you feel lost in the noise.