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Episode Summary:

In part two of our bold, no-holds-barred conversation with gay OnlyFans creator and self-proclaimed bear and bottom Koby Falks, we dive deep—literally and figuratively—into the world of gay sexual health. From the realities of anal sex preparation to the evolving norms around condoms, PrEP, and STI testing, Koby shares personal experiences, practical advice, and unfiltered truths that every sexually active person should hear.

Together, we unpack the cultural shift happening in the gay community around protection and pleasure, the science behind douching (and why technique and timing matter), and how regular STI testing plays a crucial role in safer sex practices. We also break down myths around oral sex, explore real-life risks, and share a powerful role-play that reveals common missteps in sexual communication and consent.

Whether you're LGBTQ+, curious, or simply want to better understand sexual health from a fresh, honest perspective—this episode is packed with education, empowerment, and yes, a little role-play fun. 

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

The difference between a light and deep douche (and when to use each)

Why condoms are becoming rare in certain gay communities

How PrEP and DoxyPEP are changing the sexual health landscape

The truth about STI transmission via oral sex

How to reduce risks with regular testing and smart habits

The importance of healing and gut health after repeated anal play

What to say (and what to reject) when safety is on the line

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Website: pleaseme.online

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Twitter/X: @kobyfalksxxx

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In this bold and unfiltered episode of Please Me,  Eve welcomes adult content creator and advocate Koby Falks for a deep dive into sexuality, masculinity, and the evolution of the sex industry from stigma to self-empowerment.

Koby shares his journey from growing up in rural Australia—where being gay meant being labeled weak—to confidently redefining what it means to be a man, both in and out of the bedroom. With candor and charisma, he opens up about body image, kink discovery, performance pressure, and how platforms like OnlyFans have given power back to creators in a way traditional studios never allowed.

This episode explores everything from confidence and identity to erections (yes, really), the importance of being seen, and why authentic pleasure is a right—not a reward.

If you’ve ever questioned the roles we play, the shame we carry, or the freedom that comes with owning your story, this is the conversation you didn’t know you needed.

Highlights include:

Why being gay doesn’t subtract from masculinity

Breaking out of the porn industry’s cookie-cutter standards

How Trimix injections work—and why they matter

The shift from secrecy to sexual self-expression

Kink, group scenes, and loving what used to feel off-limits

How sex work became a path to confidence, not just cash

Additional Resources:

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Vote for Eve Hall as Best Educator at the ASN Awards:
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In this juicy and deeply empowering episode, Eve is joined by therapist, women’s empowerment coach, and retreat leader Fanny Tristan for a soul-stirring conversation on sexual identity, post-breakup healing, and the misunderstood power of a happy hoe season.

Together, they break down the layers of shame, patriarchy, and systemic oppression that often silence women—especially women of color—from exploring their pleasure and owning their sexual identity. Fanny shares her personal journey and clinical insights on how to reset after heartbreak, reconnect with your sensual self, and create powerful boundaries rooted in consent and self-worth.

Whether you're fresh off a breakup, deep in your single era, or simply craving a deeper connection with your body and pleasure—this episode is your permission slip to heal, explore, and thrive.

In This Episode We Cover:

 Connect & Resources:

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Fanny Tristan

Founder of Her Soul Supply • Women’s Empowerment Coach • Licensed Therapist

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Download her free guides + sign up for the Single, Empowered, and Free webinar at hersoulsupply.com

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In this deeply insightful episode of Please Me, Eve welcomes certified clinical EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) practitioner Sophia Torrini to the mic for a raw, empowering conversation on trauma, healing, and reclaiming your pleasure.

Sophia shares her own life-altering health journey—from a near-death experience due to unnecessary surgery to discovering the transformative power of EFT. Together, Eve and Sophia explore the science and spirituality behind tapping, how emotions stored in the body can manifest as illness, and how trauma—especially when stored in the pelvic floor—can directly impact your sex life.

They also dive into:

This episode includes a powerful role-play between Eve and Sophia, modeling how EFT could support someone dealing with painful sex and unresolved trauma.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body, struggled with chronic symptoms, or longed to feel more at home in your pleasure—this conversation is for you.

Resources & Links:

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Website: pleaseme.online

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In this episode of Please Me, host Eve sits down with the incredibly talented self-taught portrait photographer, Melissa Ushtchenko. Melissa specializes in boudoir self-portraits, creating a unique blend of art and self-reflection that goes far beyond the traditional selfie. They dive into the empowering process of capturing oneself through the lens, discussing the therapeutic and meditative qualities of self-portraiture, and how it helps build confidence and a deeper connection with one's body.

Melissa shares her journey from brand photography to becoming a boudoir photographer, ignited by a moment of divine inspiration during the pandemic. She explains how boudoir self-portraits differ from the usual Instagram selfies and how the solo experience of self-photography allows individuals to explore and express their true selves without the influence of external judgment.

Throughout the conversation, Eve and Melissa explore the importance of embracing the "messiness" of the process, both in photography and in life, and how this acceptance can lead to beautiful, unexpected results. They also discuss how this practice can be a powerful tool for people recovering from surgeries or learning to love their bodies after significant changes.

Melissa also talks about her course that guides people in creating their own self-portrait practice, offering a space for continuous self-discovery and empowerment. The episode wraps up with tips on how to prepare for a boudoir session, including the importance of being present, tapping into sensuality, and creating a personalized, sensory-rich environment.

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Welcome back to Please Me!, the podcast bringing you bold conversations and Big Clit Energy! In this episode, Eve sits down with the brilliant Dr. Jenn Kennedy to have the kind of honest, grown-up sex ed talk we all should’ve gotten. From masturbation and the importance of solo exploration to redefining intimacy and tackling the orgasm gap, nothing is off-limits.

They break down the connection between sensuality and sexuality, how to build trust through vulnerability, and why communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. You’ll also learn how self-pleasure can actually enhance your partnered experiences—and why curiosity, not shame, should be your starting point.

Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this is your permission slip to turn yourself on, speak up, and pursue deeper connection—mind, body, and bedroom.

 What We Cover:

 Resources & Links:

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Website: pleaseme.online

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 Dr. Jenn Kennedy’s Website: pleasureproject.us

 Therapy Practice: rivieratherapy.com

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Ever feel awkward asking for what you truly want in bed? You're not alone. In this empowering episode of Please Me!, Eve is joined by the bold and brilliant Pepper Kat, a sex worker, content creator, and host of Spicy Spectrum. Together, they dive into the vital conversation about sexual communication, setting boundaries, and how creating a safe, non-judgmental space can enhance pleasure.

Pepper Kat shares her journey from the news industry to her empowering work in sex work, and how her unique role allows her to teach clients about intimacy, boundaries, and personal sexual liberation. The episode includes a roleplay segment where Eve and Pepper demonstrate how to set boundaries around a scene with a virtual sex worker. They discuss the power of dirty talk and how it can elevate sexual pleasure, as well as why clear communication in the bedroom is essential for creating deeper connections and enhancing intimacy.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, exploring solo play, or considering hiring a sex worker, this episode gives you the tools to break free from societal shame and communicate your sexual needs and desires confidently.

Connect with Eve Hall, Host of Please Me!

Website: pleaseme.online

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Vote for Eve Hall as Best Educator at the ASN Awards:

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In this enlightening encore episode of Please Me, Eve delves into the fascinating world of dreams and their transformative power, without the guest's name but still touching on the intriguing aspects of our dream life.

Key Topics Discussed:

Introduction to Dreams and Their Importance: Eve explores the different types of dreams, including lucid dreams, sex dreams, and premonitions, and how each type can offer unique perspectives and messages.

Lucid Dreaming: They discuss techniques for inducing lucid dreams and the benefits of experiencing them, such as heightened creativity and problem-solving abilities.

Sex Dreams and Their Meanings: A deep dive into the topic of sex dreams, exploring their common themes and what they might signify about our desires, fears, and relationships.

Wet Dreams and Pleasure: A special focus on wet dreams—how they differ from other types of sexual dreams and their potential connection to pleasure, desires, and self-exploration.

Dream Journaling and Interpretation: Guidance on how to interpret common dream symbols and themes, encouraging listeners to reflect on their dreams as a pathway to greater self-awareness and personal growth.

Using Dreams for Creativity and Problem-Solving: Inspiring examples of how dreams have led to creative breakthroughs and innovative solutions to problems.

Open Communication About Dreams and Desires: The episode wraps up with a discussion on the importance of communicating openly about our needs, desires, and intentions—both in our waking lives and in our dream states.

Connect with Debbie Spector Weisman: Visit The Dream Coach for more information.

Connect with Eve Hall, Host of Please Me:

Website: pleaseme.online

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In this encore episode of Please Me, host Eve sits down with the incredibly talented self-taught portrait photographer, Melissa Ushtchenko. Melissa specializes in boudoir self-portraits, creating a unique blend of art and self-reflection that goes far beyond the traditional selfie. They dive into the empowering process of capturing oneself through the lens, discussing the therapeutic and meditative qualities of self-portraiture, and how it helps build confidence and a deeper connection with one's body.

Melissa shares her journey from brand photography to becoming a boudoir photographer, ignited by a moment of divine inspiration during the pandemic. She explains how boudoir self-portraits differ from the usual Instagram selfies and how the solo experience of self-photography allows individuals to explore and express their true selves without the influence of external judgment.

Throughout the conversation, Eve and Melissa explore the importance of embracing the "messiness" of the process, both in photography and in life, and how this acceptance can lead to beautiful, unexpected results. They also discuss how this practice can be a powerful tool for people recovering from surgeries or learning to love their bodies after significant changes.

Melissa also talks about her course that guides people in creating their own self-portrait practice, offering a space for continuous self-discovery and empowerment. The episode wraps up with tips on how to prepare for a boudoir session, including the importance of being present, tapping into sensuality, and creating a personalized, sensory-rich environment.

Links to Get in Touch with Melissa Ushtchenko:

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Join Marijke McCandless and Eve as they delve into topics of infidelity, reconnection, playful sex, and deep diving into your personal space of sacred sexuality. Marijke discusses her book, Naked in the Now, emphasizing the importance of presence in intimate sensuality. She shares her roadmap to achieving this state and guides listeners through experiences of vulnerability on a journey towards finding naked reverence.

Key Topics Discussed:

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Explore Marijke's insights further and access her freebie guide on starting your own personal inner striptease at marijkemccandless.com

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