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Have you ever stopped to consider why the United States doesn't have an Equal Rights Amendment? Today’s guest, Julie Suk, law professor and author, paints a compelling portrait of the 100-year battle for equal rights. Drawing from her profound books, We the Women, and After Misogyny: How the Law Fails Women and What to Do About It, we embark on an enlightening journey through the turbulent history of the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) and the power of collective female action.

A key figure in our conversation is Liz Holtzman, the woman who challenged the stagnation of the ERA. We chart the inspiring stories of trailblazing women such as Abigail Adams and Ruth Bader Ginsburg, and discuss the potential implications of late ERA ratifications, the politics behind the seven-year deadline, and the current interpretation of the ERA by the Supreme Court. Furthermore, we tackle how the lack of childcare and maternity leave contributes to ongoing gender inequality.

As we navigate this complex terrain, Julie introduces the fascinating concept of an equal power model. Unlike the anti-discrimination model, this alternative has propelled women's empowerment on a global scale. We examine the potential impact of the ERA and the pioneering work of figures like Pauli Murray and Ruth Bader Ginsburg, who have made strides in pushing forward the 14th Amendment's Equal Protection Clause. This episode is a rich tapestry of history, law, and feminist theory that will leave you hungry for more. Don't miss out on these powerful insights into the fight for equal rights.

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What if you had to welcome your adult child back home? How would you navigate this complex family dynamic? We're delving into this growing trend of 'boomerang kids', exploring the financial, emotional, and practical implications for both parents and children.

From setting expectations to maintaining open communication, we're sharing personal stories, observations, and expert advice on how to cohabit harmoniously. This phenomenon isn't just a U.S. trend but is happening internationally, making this a must-listen for anyone finding themselves in this situation.

Have you ever wondered about the age-old debate of whether adult children should contribute financially while living at home again? We're tackling this contentious issue head-on with interesting statistics, budgeting tips, saving strategies, and future planning advice. Beyond just rent, we also explore alternatives like contributing to groceries or other household responsibilities. The ultimate goal is to strike a balance where adult children maintain a sense of responsibility and independence. Join us on this insightful journey that explores a family dynamic that is becoming more common in this day and age.

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Tish:   Acrylic Y2K Style Chunky Retro Resin set of 5 rings!
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What we talk about in this episode:  boomerang kids, US trends in young adults moving home, multigenerational households, Thai fresh rolls, funky Y2K rings, why adult children move home, trends outside of the US for young adults living at home, clarifying expectations, communication,  regression, what are roommate rules?,  should your adult child pay rent or contribute financially, parent boundaries,  skill building, strengthening your relationship with your adult children, when to ask a child to transition out, 9 rules to help the relationship work when living together.

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Are you feeling stuck in a rut? Wondering how to break free and get back on track? Join us as we reveal the signs of being in a rut and share strategies to help you regain your motivation and joy.

In this heartfelt conversation, we discuss four common indicators that you're stuck in a rut: negative self-talk, feeling overwhelmed by change, procrastination, and a lack of motivation. We also explore the power of micro goals, micro joys, and spending time in nature to help you break free. Don't miss our candid chat about the importance of self-care, chronic stress management, and why there's no shame in seeking professional help if you're concerned that your rut might be something more serious.

Discover the impact of small victories and the incredible difference a good friend can make in overcoming a rut. We'll also share some of our favorite self-care practices, like taking a "rockstar shower" and gratitude journaling, to help you manage chronic stress and get out of that rut. So, let's get unstuck and embrace a more joyful, motivated life together!

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Can you imagine building a successful business that combines the world of dance, culinary arts, and family all into one unforgettable experience? Our guest, the incredibly talented Julia Adam, has done just that! As a former ballerina, choreographer, and artistic associate, Julia has navigated through the challenges of a demanding career and motherhood, ultimately creating her innovative concept JAD Experience in Sonoma County, California.

From a young Canadian who dappled in figure skating before dedicating to ballet, to a National Ballet of Canada dancer, and a San Francisco Ballet principal dancer Julia's journey has been nothing short of inspiring. She shares with us her decision to pursue ballet over figure skating at a young age and the sacrifices she made along the way. We also discuss the competitive nature of the dance world and how Julia learned to embrace it, all while juggling the expectations of being a successful woman and mother.

In this episode, you'll learn all about JAD Experiences, where farm-to-table food and live dance performances come together in a truly unique way. With the support of her husband Aaron and their children, Julia has built a thriving family business that encourages other women to create the life they desire. So, join us for this engaging and insightful conversation with Julia Adam, and be ready to feel inspired to follow your own dreams and passions!

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Ellen:  Mason jars with solar fairy lights for your patio or deck

What we talk about in this episode:  Ballet, dance, farm to table, sustainable farming, cattle, creativity, San Francisco Ballet, Memphis Ballet,  recycling, sustainability, motherhood,  Marin, travel with kids,  choreography, events, community. 

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Are you struggling with the pain and complexity of parent-adult-child estrangement? In this eye-opening conversation with psychotherapist, author, and ReConnection Club founder Tina Gilbertson, we uncover the root causes and contributing factors to this challenging family dynamic, and explore strategies for healing and reconnection.

Throughout our discussion, we examine how values, loyalties, financial problems, sibling issues, and infertility can contribute to estrangement. Tina enlightens us on the role our individualistic culture plays in this issue and shares her insights on reconnecting with adult children through personal healing, growth, and addressing any underlying issues before seeking family therapy.

We also dive into navigating communication with estranged children, and the heartache that comes with feeling disconnected. Learn how to avoid making a difficult situation worse and the importance of understanding and healing family estrangement. Don't miss this valuable opportunity to gain guidance and support from Tina's expertise and compassionate approach as you work towards resolution and reconnection.

Get Tina's book, Reconnecting with Your Adult Estranged Child  - click here!

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Tish:  Glass meal prep containers!  Meal prep is how Tish is teaching her youngest son Liam to cook!
Ellen: custom M&Ms.  She did these for the class of 2023 in school colors but you can do NBA, weddings, birthdays, Father's Day, and showers! 

What we talk about in this episode: estrangement, divorce, shame,  the ReConnection podcast, therapy, family therapy, personal work, growth, boundaries, healing, parental alienation, open heart,  emotional toolbox, and Tina's two books: Constructive Wallowing and Reconnecting With Your Adult Estranged Child.

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Are you aware of the alarming rise in censorship and book bans in the United States? This episode features an eye-opening conversation with Kasey Meehan, the Read Program Director at PEN America, who shares her insights on how her organization is fighting to protect free expression and access to diverse and inclusive literature for all. Join us as Kasey walks us through the challenges and trends in book banning, and how PEN America is leading the charge against this growing threat.

Kasey highlights the prevalence of book bans in states such as Florida, Texas, Missouri, Utah, South Carolina, and Michigan, revealing that a small but vocal minority is responsible for most book challenges across the country. We discuss the targeted censorship of best-selling authors like Jodi Picoult and books that tackle subjects such as gender identity, race and racism, and school shootings. Listen in as we explore some of the most commonly challenged books, including 13 Reasons Why and The Hate U Give, and examine the broader implications of this censorship trend.

As we uncover the magnitude of book banning and its impact on our society, we also discuss the crucial role organizations like PEN America play in pushing back against these bans. We emphasize the importance of preserving the First Amendment and student freedom to read, and encourage listeners to get involved and challenge the evil of censorship. Don't miss this vital conversation about the future of censorship and the collective vision we must create for a world that values free expression and access to literature.

For more information about PEN America or how to donate to their cause please go to their website https://pen.org/

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Obsessions - Tish and Ellen are obsessed with PEN America and ask for you to donate at the link above. 

What we talk about in this episode:  First Amendment Rights, censorship, Jodi Piccolt, Amanda Gorman, PEN America, American Library Association, 13 Reasons Why, Judy Bloom, Are You There God, It's Me, Margaret, Forever, The Hate U Give, Jamie Gregory, Milk & Honey. 


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It's summer, and Ellen and Tish are ready to take it on. 

Books, blockbuster movies, fashion, food & drink, sports, travel, and seeing friends and family - Ellen and Tish share what they've got planned and great ideas for all in these six categories to make your summer the best one ever.  And, yes Tish does mention pickleball in this episode!
 
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Tish:   Watermelon Tap and Pineapple Corer
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What we talk about in this episode:  the new Indiana Jones movie, watermelon, kegs, white jeans, white jean shorts, white jean skirts, vibrant belts, Elin Hilderbrand, Emma Cline, Taylor Jenkins Reid, Julie Suk, Oppenheimer movie,  Indiana Jones new movie, Watermelon Kegs kits and pineapple corer, birdcage bars, Jaws, Nantucket, Campari soda, gazpacho, Hadley Pollet belts, high school graduation, watermelon martini, ocean spray, Laguna Beach, Tampa, Cayman Islands


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Ellen and Tish celebrate the first year of the Positively Midlife Podcast (PMP) with a countdown of the top episodes by listeners!  They share the inside scoop on starting a podcast, share the top 6 episodes, and give a preview into year two of the podcast.  And of course, it wouldn't be a PMP show without obsessions so they also share their top 4 obsessions of the first year of the podcast! 

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Tish: White western boots and WOW texture spray and Color Dream Coat products
Ellen: Panda Planner and French Sea Salt

What we talk about in this episode:  anniversary, Buzzsprout, top episodes, Mounjaro, Midlife Transitions, fitness, health journey, name change, Spring Cleaning, friendship, Palomas, decluttering, high growth moment, highs and lows.

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 Independence, self-sufficiency, a growth mindset, and continued learning are simply a few of the benefits of learning to do things yourself in midlife.  Ellen and Tish take this to heart and feel they can learn to do 'almost' anything online on YouTube! 

Find out what they've learned to do that's impressed their kids and themselves too....and why they prioritize midlife learning! They share what they've learned about cooking, fitness, DYI, personal development, and more.

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Tish: Cleaning gel for detailing your car!  Give it as a graduation gift too.  
Ellen: Olive and June press on French manicure kits.

What we talk about in this episode:
Self-sufficiency, visual learning, Gordon Ramsy, searing a perfect steak, human bandwidth, Hog Island oysters, continuous learning, hard-boiled eggs, growth mindset, Pat Flynn, Buzzsprout, languages, Patreon.  

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Do you know how to have strong boundaries? Are you able to say no to others when you don't want to do something? Do you ever feel taken advantage of? Do you feel other people don't take your wants into consideration? If you answered yes to any of those questions you may have issues setting Boundaries.

Setting boundaries is the key to good mental health and a life skill we all need to master - and midlife is a great time to do it or strengthen what you've been doing. Ellen and Tish share what they've learned from reading Melissa Urban's best-selling book The Book of Boundaries - Set the Limits That Will Set You Free.

Learn why we need healthy boundaries, a three-step process to creating and maintaining them, why clear and kind communications are important, and understand self-boundaries too. 

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Tish: Support us on PATREON here.  You will get access to a quarterly bonus Q&A. 
Ellen: Melissa Urban's book on boundaries - The Book of Boundaries: Set the Limits That Will Set You Free. 

What we talk about in this episode:
Healthy boundaries, Melissa Urban's Book, The Book of Boundaries: Set the Limits That Will Set You Free, Patreon, kind and clear communication, having boundaries doesn't make you selfish, setting boundaries is empowering, the 6 area you want to set boundaries for, Brene Brown, learn to communicate and don't expect people to read your mind, self boundaries, sexual boundaries
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