Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World

Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World

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  • The Oldest Profession: A Recent History with Kaytlin Bailey

    For the 63rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome comedian & sex worker turned sex worker rights activist Kaytlin Bailey. She founded Olds Pros to tell more accurate sex worker stories & also hosts The Oldest Profession podcast. 

    We talk about Kaytlin's experience with sex work (both from a place of privilege, as well as really needing the money), how FOSTA-SESTA dismantled the online community protecting sex workers, her work as a sex worker rights activist, some effed up whorephobic laws you should know about & more.

    For more Kaytlin Bailey:

    • Check out The Oldest Profession podcast
    • Follow Kaytlin on Instagram @kaytlinbailey
    • Follow Old Pros on Instagram @oldproinc
    • Check out Old Pros' website oldproinc.com

    • Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

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      • Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.

        If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating & sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private 

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        1 hr 3 min
      • Comedians of OnlyFans: August Postmortem + Tito Bonito

        For the 62nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra drop the 10th episode of our "Comedians of OnlyFans" series.

        First, we get the postmortem about the recent OnlyFans debacle with sex workers on their platform from previous guests Meredith Jacqueline and Selena the Stripper. Then we interview Los Angeles-based burlesque performer, comedian & OnlyFans creator, Tito Bonito. 

        Out-of-work comedians have been flocking to OnlyFans to help pay their bills during the coronavirus pandemic. This series explores the intersection of comedy, sex work & COVID-19.

        For more Tito Bonito:

        • Subscribe to Tito's OnlyFans onlyfans.com/titobonito
        • Follow Tito on Instagram @cubanmissilecrisis
        • Follow Tito on Twitter @TitoBonito_
        • Check out Tito's website titobonito.com

        • Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans too: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow

          Here's a playlist of our entire "Comedians of OnlyFans" series.

          Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

          • EveAdam is offering our listeners 10% off when you go to EveAdam.com/private AND enter code PRIVATE at checkout.
          • Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions designed to turn you on. Dipsea is offering a 30-day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/private.
          • Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 20% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/Private OR enter code Private at checkout.

          • Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.

            If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating & sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private 

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            1 hr 2 min
          • Feminist Strippers Sick of the Clown Show with Coco Ono & Megan Rippey

            For the 61st episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome former Jumbo's Clown Room dancers Coco Ono & Megan Rippey, who are both brilliant performance artists and activists, as well.

            This episode explores the intersection of sex work, workers' rights & COVID-19.

            Read Megan's "Jumbos Exposé(d)" essay.

            Sign the petition to Stop Strip Clubs From Firing Strippers Without Just Cause!

            For more Coco Ono, Megan Rippey & Strippers United:

            • Follow Coco Ono (aka Kayla Tange) on Instagram @coco.ono
          • Follow Megan Rippey (aka Reagan) on Instagram @meganrippey
          • Follow @cyberclowngirlsshow on Instagram
          • Follow Strippers United on Instagram @soldiers_of_pole_

          • Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

            • Manscaped, #1 in men’s below the belt grooming. Manscaped offers precision-engineered tools for you or your man’s family jewels.  Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code PRIVATE at Manscaped.com. 
            • EveAdam is offering our listeners 10% off when you go to EveAdam.com/private AND enter code PRIVATE at checkout.

            Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.

            If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating & sexy review!  —> ratethispodcast.com/private 

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            1 hr 4 min
          • How to Take a Vulva-Owner to Cum Town with Dr. Ashley Townes

            For the 60th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome sexual health researcher Ashley Townes for her expert advice on how vulva-owners (& everyone, really!) can experience more pleasure during intercourse.

            We dig into incorporating sex toys into your repertoire with a partner, navigating the awkwardness of sex positions that don’t feel good, the importance of communication in the bedroom, tips for women who want to make sure they get off & why sex education should be more pleasure-centric.

            For more Ashley Townes:

            • Follow Ashley on Instagram @dr.ashleytownes
            • Read Ashley's work on Pure Romance

            • Psst, this is the pleasure mapping workbook from Afrosexology that Ashley recommends!

              Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

              • Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions designed to turn you on. Dipsea is offering a 30-day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/private.
              • Manscaped, #1 in men’s below the belt grooming. Manscaped offers precision-engineered tools for you or your man’s family jewels. Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code PRIVATE at Manscaped.com. 
              • EveAdam is offering our listeners 10% off when you go to EveAdam.com/private AND enter code PRIVATE at checkout.

              • Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.

                If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating & sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private 

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                44 min
              • It's Okay to Be Childfree with Zoë Noble

                For the 59th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome Zoë Noble, Berlin-based photographer and We Are Childfree creator for a discussion about living your best childfree life, bodily autonomy as a human right & the motherhood expectation faced by many women around the world.

                For more Zoë Noble:

                • Read Zoë's NYT debut "Women Who Said No to Motherhood"
                • Follow Zoë on Instagram @zoenoblephoto
                • Follow We Are Childfree on Instagram @wearechildfree_

                • Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

                  • Intensity by Pour Moi is an intimate health and stimulation device. Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com & enter code Private at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website.
                  • Manscaped, #1 in men’s below the belt grooming. Manscaped offers precision-engineered tools for you or your man’s family jewels. Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code PRIVATE at Manscaped.com. 

                  • Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.

                    If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating & sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private 

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                    55 min
                  • Nine Nasty Words: A History of Swear Words in Honor of Fuck with John McWhorter

                    For the 58th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome John McWhorter, linguist & author of the new book Nine Nasty Words: English in the Gutter: Then, Now, and Forever for a deep dive on the history of swear words.

                    For more John McWhorter:

                    • Buy John's newest book Nine Nasty Words
                    • Follow John on Twitter @JohnHMcWhorter
                    • Sign up for John's Substack It Bears Mentioning

                    • Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

                      • Manscaped, #1 in men’s below the belt grooming. Manscaped offers precision-engineered tools for you or your man’s family jewels. Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code PRIVATE at Manscaped.com. 
                      • Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions designed to turn you on. Dipsea is offering a 30-day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/private.

                      • Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.

                        If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating & sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private 

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                        50 min
                      • Coming Out Once, Twice, Three Times a Lady with Savannah Manhattan

                        For the 57th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome Los Angeles-based comedian Savannah Manhattan, who originally hails from Minnesota, to talk about transitioning during the pandemic.

                        Savannah gives us the 411 on what it's been like to come out in three separate stages — first as non-binary, then gay & most recently, trans. She also shares her parents' reaction, the impact on her creative life, how it's felt to start hormone treatment & more.

                        For more Savannah Manhattan:

                        • Follow Savannah on Twitter @savvymanhattan
                      • Follow Savannah on Instagram @savannahmanhattan

                      • Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

                        • Manscaped, #1 in men’s below the belt grooming. Manscaped offers precision-engineered tools for you or your man’s family jewels.  Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code PRIVATE at Manscaped.com. 
                        • Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions designed to turn you on. Dipsea is offering a 30-day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/private.

                        Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.

                        If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating & sexy review!  —> ratethispodcast.com/private 

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                        56 min
                      • Happy Memorial Day, Privates!
                        Happy Memorial Day, Privates! Enjoy the holiday weekend. We'll be back next week with a full episode. In the meantime, catch up on our back catalog. xx
                        Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.
                        3 min
                      • Navigating & Thriving in Neurodiverse Relationships

                        For the 56th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome Sara Langdon & Natalie Roberts, two of the co-founders of Loving Difference, a new relationship-focused online membership community bringing together people looking for new ways to live in neurodiverse relationships.

                        In this interview, coaches (& sisters-in-law!) Sara (based in Philadelphia) & Natalie (based in the U.K.) share their personal & professional experiences navigating & thriving in relationships where at least one partner is on the autism spectrum.

                        Loving Difference welcomes all neurotypes, including but not limited to Autism Spectrum Disorder, ADHD, Sensory Processing Difference & Neurotypical. Members are guided to learn about themselves & their loved ones in a safe, non-judgmental space to be inspired & encouraged to celebrate the unconventional & beautiful differences in themselves & within their homes.

                        For more Loving Difference:

                        • Check out their website lovingdifference.mn.co
                      • Follow Loving Difference on Instagram @loving.difference
                      • Check out Natalie Roberts' website natalieroberts.com

                      • Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

                        • Intensity by Pour Moi is an intimate health and stimulation device. Pour Moi is offering our listeners an additional $25 off of Intensity when you go to PourMoi.com & enter code Private at checkout. You can use this code along with any code on their website.
                        • The OhMyG is a super-silent internal G-spot massager for bodies with a vagina. OhMyG is offering our listeners 30% off when you go to IobaToys.com and enter code PRIVATE at checkout.

                        Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.

                        If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating & sexy review!  —> ratethispodcast.com/private 

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                        56 min
                      • How to Get Your Couple Sex Groove Back with Ian Kerner

                        For the 55th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome Ian Kerner for a relationship sex rut reboot.

                        Dr. Ian Kerner is a nationally recognized sex therapist, and author of the smash hit She Comes First and the recently released So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. He's also a Sherlock Holmes of the bedroom—a sexual detective helping individuals and couples solve the mystery of why they're not fucking like they wish they were. 

                        For more Ian Kerner:

                        • Order Ian's new book So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex
                        • Follow Ian on Twitter @IanKerner
                        • Check out Ian's website iankerner.com

                        • Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:

                          • The OhMyG is a super-silent internal G-spot massager for bodies with a vagina. OhMyG is offering our listeners 30% off when you go to IobaToys.com and enter code PRIVATE at checkout.
                          • Lorals are the world's first oral sex panties; they're single-use natural latex panties designed to be worn during oral sex & rimming. Get 15% off your first Lorals purchase at mylorals.com with code Private.

                          • Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown & Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak & Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram & Twitter.

                            If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating & sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private 

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                            56 min

                          About Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World

                          From the publisher's feed

                          Private Parts Unknown (FKA Reality Bytes) is a Bourdain-style podcast exploring sex, love, relationships, gender, and seductive subcultures around the world. Join host Courtney Kocak and expert guests for hilarious, sex-positive conversations—destigmatizing everything from abortion to Ashley Madison, polyamory to PMDD, sex work to Shibari, and more. Travel series include Helsinki, Finland; Mexico City, Mexico; and Tokyo, Japan.

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