When is it okay to pass gas in front of a new partner?

Is it ever okay to snoop in their messages?

Should you ask about their past?

When should you introduce kids to a new partner?

We don't have their answers, but we share our imperfect thoughts on your "when is it okay to...?" questions.

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Q&A Quickie: Passing Gas, Snooping & Ex-Lovers

Episode 321

You're listening to The Sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and Relationship Advice you can use tonight.

[00:00:14] Brandon Ware: Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your co-host Brandon here with my Love. The other half, Dr. Jess.

[00:00:20] Jess O'Reilly: Hey. Hey, today's a quickie.

[00:00:22] Brandon Ware: Yeah, I love quickies.

[00:00:22] Jess O'Reilly: You do love a quickie. Just get it over, wham. Bam. Thank you, ma'am.

[00:00:26] Brandon Ware: Yeah, just when there's time constraints, I'm down.

[00:00:28] Jess O'Reilly: All right. So we are, we're on the road this week, so we're gonna keep it kind of short, but I think it's an interesting topic. I've been trying to kind of group together some of the questions that come in for the podcast thematically, and today is about timing.

[00:00:41] Jess O'Reilly: Relationship milestones. So when is it okay to fart in front of your partner? When is it okay to introduce kids to a new partner? When is it okay to snoop on your partner's phone, et cetera, et cetera. I'm sure you have some thoughts on those. I do. Uh, but before we dive into that, I wanted to quickly talk about a study that's sort of relevant, not sort of extremely relevant to you and me, and, uh, let's make it about us.

[00:01:06] Jess O'Reilly: This is a study outta Michigan that found that one in five adults do not plan on ever having children.

[00:01:13] Brandon Ware: I found that number very high initially when you said it to me. 20% seems a lot higher than I I, I think the general population, but again, this is representative of the entire. Us?

[00:01:24] Jess O'Reilly: Well, yeah,

[00:01:24] Brandon Ware: that it's a sample.

[00:01:25] Jess O'Reilly: So this is a sample out of Michigan. But what they said in the study is that the, it's a state whose population is representative of the US more generally in terms of demographics. So it's a, it's a, it's a good sample and so they consider it nationally representative and 20% not having kids. Now, that sounds really high, but if you look around us, especially in our closest friend circle, so many of us don't have kids.

[00:01:50] Brandon Ware: I mean, I, I, the last studies in Canada that I read, I think our birth rate was neutral. Without immigration, we would be alright. It might actually be negative, but I think we'd be [00:02:00] du our country would be shrinking.

[00:02:01] Jess O'Reilly: Shrinking. Yeah. And our land is just like massive. We need some people. Well, we're bringing a lot, which is great. We need people to come in and, uh, yeah. Cuz you know, jerks like us aren't having kids.

[00:02:11] Brandon Ware: Yeah. Yeah.

[00:02:12] Jess O'Reilly: It's interesting because this is a huge topic and we're not gonna, you know, spend forever on it. Maybe we can do a full episode on it. But there definitely, for me as a woman, I do think I'm seen as selfish for not having kids. I don't know if you, you probably don't get that as a dude.