Real Talk with Zuby

Marni Kinrys, widely known as 'The Wing Girl', is a veteran dating coach with over 20 years of experience helping men navigate the complex world of attraction and relationships. Marni shares her journey to becoming the first female voice in the male-dominated pickup artist community. Zuby and Marni discuss gender differences in communication, coaching, and romantic expectations, as well as delusion, body image, and the role of honesty in dating. The conversation also covers how technology and social media have shifted dating dynamics, the decline in marriage, and predictions for the future of gender relations.

Free Video Series with Marni: https://fwithher.com/zuby

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:41) Marni’s background & coaching journey

(04:39) Entering the PUA world

(06:46) Transforming dating advice

(08:31) Reactions to her work & motivation

(13:19) Meeting her husband & family life

(16:10) Raising boys & coaching men vs women

(18:29) Insights from coaching men

(21:06) Childhood & emotional dynamics

(22:21) Coaching styles & communication

(25:25) Lies, delusion & body image

(56:22) Tech’s impact on dating & gender roles

(1:19:51) Future of relationships & uplifting men

(1:27:35) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow Marni:

https://winggirlmethod.com

https://x.com/winggirlmethod

https://instagram.com/winggirlmethod

_

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Zuby speaks with Nate Lewis, founder of The Innocent, an organisation dedicated to protecting children from exploitation and abuse. Nate shares how he began his journey and reveals the staggering scale of child sexual abuse in the United States, including shocking statistics on victim numbers. They discuss the dangerous role smartphones and social media play in facilitating these crimes, and the lackluster response from law enforcement. Nate discusses how predators operate, what motivates them, and what steps individuals and society must take to combat this abuse.

Lucid - Are you a fan of dystopian fiction and sci-fi thrillers? Check out the novel 'Lucid' by Michael S. Milano at https://lucidthebook.com

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:02) How Nate began his career

(03:03) The scale of child exploitation in the US

(06:05) 46M in the US have experienced SA?

(10:43) Social media safeguards

(14:52) Smart phone & social media age restrictions

(17:31) Are these crimes related to smart phones & social media?

(21:03) Where are law enforcement?

(32:26) The Innocent/law enforcement work

(39:43) What drives humans to commit these crimes?

(47:46) Priorities of individuals & society to reduce SA

(58:08) Where to find The Innocent and support Nate’s work

(59:09) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://zubymusic.substack.com

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow Nate Lewis & The Innocent:

https://theinnocent.org

https://instagram.com/theinnocentorg

https://x.com/theinnocentorg

_

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

'Strong Advice: Zuby's Guide to Fitness For Everybody' eBook - https://gumroad.com/l/zubyfitness

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Pastor Douglas Wilson is an American theologian and pastor at Christ Church in Moscow, Idaho. He joins Zuby to discuss his five decades of ministry and the sweeping cultural transformations he has seen in the USA. The conversation covers the societal impacts of the technological revolution, the erosion of personal responsibility, the rise of victimhood, and the pivotal role of the 1960s in shaping modern culture. They also share predictions for America’s future in 2025.

Lucid - Are you a fan of dystopian fiction and sci-fi thrillers? Check out the novel 'Lucid' by Michael S. Milano at https://lucidthebook.com

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:53) Pastor Douglas Wilson’s background

(03:41) 50 years of pastoring: a changing country

(27:08) The technological revolution and its societal impacts

(31:01) Lack of personal responsibility in the West

(36:20) Victimhood mentality

(38:26) 5 decades of cultural change in America

(45:41) The 60s was the inflection point

(52:30) What changes do you see in 2025?

(54:17) Will Republicans/the right fracture?

(57:38) Optimism with the Trump administration

(59:35) Learn more about Pastor Douglas Wilson

(1:01:06) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow Pastor Douglas Wilson:

https://dougwils.com

https://x.com/douglaswils

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Zuby is joined by Brian Rose, a broadcaster, entrepreneur, and founder of London Real. Brian shares insights on personal resilience, the changing media landscape, and the dangers of short-term thinking in both politics and personal life. The two discuss the meaning of freedom, how wealth can both empower and enslave, and whether the UK is truly in decline.

Lucid - Are you a fan of dystopian fiction and sci-fi thrillers? Check out the novel 'Lucid' by Michael S. Milano at https://lucidthebook.com

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:21) Brian’s background

(04:29) Responding positively to bad news

(10:12) Long term consequences of short term thinking

(13:38) Are you the average or the exception?

(18:38) Confinement at both ends of wealth

(22:00) What is freedom?

(27:45) Is the UK in decline?

(33:49) What skills do leaders have?

(44:44) Canada, US, UK, Australia are reelecting incompetent officials

(50:06) Good governance ‘runs in the background’

(53:49) US optimism, media landscape, service to others

(58:37) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow Brian Rose:

https://londonreal.tv

https://x.com/LondonRealTV

https://instagram.com/londonrealtv

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

'Strong Advice: Zuby's Guide to Fitness For Everybody' eBook - https://gumroad.com/l/zubyfitness

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Zuby talks with Kim Witczak, a drug safety advocate, about her tragic personal story that sparked her fight for pharmaceutical accountability. They explore psychiatric medication risks, regulatory failures, rising death rates, and global drug policy differences. Kim also discusses mental health, her new book, and ways to reclaim health in a corporatised system.

Lucid - Are you a fan of dystopian fiction and sci-fi thrillers? Check out the novel 'Lucid' by Michael S. Milano at https://lucidthebook.com

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

_

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:50) Kim’s background

(03:40) Kim’s inflection point

(07:50) Linking medication to the event

(14:16) Deaths from psychiatric drugs

(16:26) Status of the drugs today

(18:47) Correlation/causation drugs/deaths

(23:44) Changes to drug rules over last 34 years

(27:06) Is this an American problem?

(37:30) Will the new administration change drug laws?

(41:27) Health & sovereignty

(46:38) Food ingredient bans in the US vs worldwide

(51:15) Mental health in the West

(59:30) Kim’s new book

(1:00:09) Follow Kim

(1:00:48) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow Kim Witczak:

https://kimwitczak.com

https://x.com/woodymatters

hattps://instagram.com/kimwitczak

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

'Strong Advice: Zuby's Guide to Fitness For Everybody' eBook - https://gumroad.com/l/zubyfitness

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nick Santonastasso is an American entrepreneur, motivational speaker, and social media personality. He was born with Hanhart Syndrome, a rare genetic condition resulting in him being born with no legs and one arm. In this compelling conversation, Nick joins Zuby to discuss his recent move from the USA to the UAE and how new environments shape mindset and behaviour. They explore Nick’s approach to confronting mortality, the pivotal childhood experiences that forged his resilience, and the unique dynamics of his family. Nick reveals his greatest life lessons and shares powerful strategies for staying positive and thriving in the face of life’s toughest challenges.

Lucid - Are you a fan of dystopian fiction and sci-fi thrillers? Check out the novel 'Lucid' by Michael S. Milano at https://lucidthebook.com

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

—

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(07:38) Moving from the US to UAE

(13:10) Information flows & cultural impacts

(18:42) Dealing with death

(25:46) Nick’s childhood

(32:39) Nick’s family dynamic

(39:23) Overcoming human conflict

(45:22) Greatest lesson Nick has learned

(59:35) Human progress vs regress

(1:11:42) What’s next for Nick

(1:13:32) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow Nick Santonastasso:

https://www.nicksantonastasso.com

https://instagram.com/nicksantonastasso

https://youtube.com/user/NickSantonastasso

_

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Zuby is joined by 19 Keys, a cultural thought leader and entrepreneur, known for his insights into consciousness and social empowerment. They discuss the origins of 19 Keys’ name, his militant upbringing, and the influence of his parents. The two explore the state of modern masculinity, intellectualism, capitalism, and the opportunities available for Black Americans in modern society.

Lucid - Are you a fan of dystopian fiction and sci-fi thrillers? Check out the novel 'Lucid' by Michael S. Milano at https://lucidthebook.com

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:00) What does 19 Keys mean?

(03:16) 19 Keys' upbringing

(07:39) Meaning of ‘militant’

(14:28) 19 Keys' parents

(18:52) Masculinity in 2025

(28:11) Intellectualism as masculine?

(52:14) Elitism

(55:58) Defining 'capitalism'

(1:04:02) Emotionality & feeling vs objective outcomes

(1:24:09) Opportunities today for Black Americans

(01:36:09) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow 19 Keys:

https://www.19keys.com

https://instagram.com/19_keys

https://x.com/19keys_

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

'Strong Advice: Zuby's Guide to Fitness For Everybody' eBook - https://gumroad.com/l/zubyfitness

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Zuby is joined by Calley Means, a health advocate and entrepreneur, who is tackling the root causes of America's health crisis. They dissect the true reasons behind the country's declining public health, from the food industry's grip on regulations, to the consequences of misaligned incentives in healthcare and governance. Calley challenges the idea that capitalism is solely to blame, and makes the case for reclaiming personal sovereignty.

Lucid - Are you a fan of dystopian fiction and sci-fi thrillers? Check out the novel 'Lucid' by Michael S. Milano at https://lucidthebook.com

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(04:54) The cause of poor US health

(11:18) Is free market capitalism to blame?

(22:48) Why the recent drastic decline in health?

(28:58) Balancing sovereignty with corrupt food industry

(40:38) The most concerning issue for US health

(44:28) Fixing incentives for healthy Americans

(53:58) Reasons to be optimistic

(59:29) The three major risks for America

(1:01:17) What are Bill Gates’ incentives?

(1:04:18) Personal responsibility at scale

(1:09:12) Current healthy lifestyle momentum

(1:10:57) Where to reach Calley

(1:11:18) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow Calley:

https://x.com/CalleyMeans

https://www.trueemedicine.care

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

'Strong Advice: Zuby's Guide to Fitness For Everybody' eBook - https://gumroad.com/l/zubyfitness

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

American author and social commentator, Adam Coleman, joins Zuby to discuss his newest book, 'The Children We Left Behind'. Adam shares his deeply personal family history, and how it's affected him throughout his life. The conversation explores the societal impacts of fatherlessness, broken homes, and parental selfishness, along with ideas to help rebuild strong families in America.

Lucid - Are you a fan of dystopian fiction and sci-fi thrillers? Check out the novel 'Lucid' by Michael S. Milano at https://lucidthebook.com

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:58) Adam’s new book ‘The Children We Left Behind’

(04:18) Adam’s childhood

(10:44) Metal institute experience

(13:23) Returning home from a mental hospital

(15:22) When Adam’s life pivoted

(20:23) Adam’s contact with his father

(23:19) Growing up with a father in a secret marriage

(30:06) Parental selfishness in society

(38:49) Helping parents and children in America

(45:59) Fixing broken homes

(59:24) Declining matchmaking rates

(1:08:20) Where to find Adam and Adam’s writing

(1:08:37) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow Adam Coleman:

https://x.com/wrong_speak

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

'Strong Advice: Zuby's Guide to Fitness For Everybody' eBook - https://gumroad.com/l/zubyfitness

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Ben Perrin, host of BTC Sessions, joins Zuby to explore the philosophy, evolution, and future of Bitcoin. Ben recounts getting into cryptocurrency over a decade ago, and explains how Bitcoin intersects with freedom, utility, and self-sovereignty. The conversation takes a turn into real-world activism as Ben details his involvement in Canada’s trucker protest and the financial censorship that followed.

Sponsors:

Sambrosa - Wake up ready to embrace life's opportunities. Try Sambrosa and get 10% off at https://sambrosa.com/zuby10

Lucid - Are you a fan of dystopian fiction and sci-fi thrillers? Check out the novel 'Lucid' by Michael S. Milano at https://lucidthebook.com

Stash - Don't let your savings sit around, make them work harder for you. Go to https://get.stash.com/zuby to see how you can receive $25 towards your first stock purchase.

Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction

(03:09) Ben’s introduction to Bitcoin

(04:22) Bitcoin 10 years ago

(06:07) BTC’s wider ideology/philosophy/utility

(12:00) Ben’s involvement in Canada’s C*vid trucker protest

(24:06) Safety concerns

(30:54) Current BTC developments

(38:16) Does Trump understand Bitcoin

(41:15) The psychology of doing nothing

(46:40) Threats to Bitcoin

(52:15) The future for BTC this century

(57:57) Does fiat currency need to collapse for BTC to succeed?

(1:05:26) Find and follow Ben

(1:06:20) Outro

_

Follow Zuby:

https://x.com/zubymusic

https://instagram.com/zubymusic

https://facebook.com/zubymusic

Follow Ben Perrin:

https://x.com/BTCsessions

https://youtube.com/@BTCSessions

https://btcsessions.ca

Subscribe to the 'Real Talk With Zuby' podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify & more - https://fanlink.tv/zubypodcast

Merch, Music & Books - https://teamzuby.com

'Strong Advice: Zuby's Guide to Fitness For Everybody' eBook - https://gumroad.com/l/zubyfitness

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy