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“Relationships are not meant to be fun”
What? Why?
How can you say that so confidently?!?
When I left my first marriage, I could have said exactly what the listener said in your podcast.
I know I did not do my work then as it was all about him and why I couldn’t continue to be in the relationship because of how he was.
However we have 3 children and so have stayed in touch and actually have a lovely relationship even though he has not changed in any way that I can see.
So I can honestly say I love him, but would not consider living together again.
So my question is….
If relationships are not meant to be fun, why would one ever consider being in a committed one?
Why not just do your ‘work’ with all the relationships in your life and then have a partner just for fun?
As usual looking forward to and dreading your answer.
By Clare Dimond4.9
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“Relationships are not meant to be fun”
What? Why?
How can you say that so confidently?!?
When I left my first marriage, I could have said exactly what the listener said in your podcast.
I know I did not do my work then as it was all about him and why I couldn’t continue to be in the relationship because of how he was.
However we have 3 children and so have stayed in touch and actually have a lovely relationship even though he has not changed in any way that I can see.
So I can honestly say I love him, but would not consider living together again.
So my question is….
If relationships are not meant to be fun, why would one ever consider being in a committed one?
Why not just do your ‘work’ with all the relationships in your life and then have a partner just for fun?
As usual looking forward to and dreading your answer.

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