Have you ever thought, “When God calls my number, am I really going to step up to the challenge? YES!”  

The youngest of three Elliott sisters, Emilie has always been a natural born caregiver.  From early childhood, caring for baby dolls and animals, to adulthood where she operated her own daycare center, and ultimately serving as mom to three amazing children, her passion for caring for others has no bounds.

In this episode, Emilie takes the lead in sharing her caregiving journey with her sisters JJ and Natalie.  Her story reflects the role(s) so many of you have traveled in your own caregiver journey.  She’s checked off serving as long-distance caregiver, close-by caregiver and of course, most recently, live-in caregiver to her mother, Connie.  She has been a sandwich caregiver, caring for both her mother and children at the same time.  

It was the most recent change in caregiver role, that of a live-in caretaker, where she’s found the most unexpected surprises.  Namely, navigating the ups and downs that come with the role reversal between parent and adult child.     

Listen in as Emilie talks with her sisters about the challenges, and even push back, she’s experienced as roommate and caregiver to Connie. She discusses the difference between raising your children to that of supporting her mother.  From establishing new rules to setting “Elliott” household expectations to ensure everyone’s safety, you’re sure to relate and learn from experiences.   

Key Takeaways:

• Don’t be afraid to set rules for the household. Establish rules with a goal of mutual agreement and most important, respect as the foundation.
• Although you may be the “child” in the parent/child relationship, remember, your voice matters and carries equal weight in the decision making process.
• The importance of self-care cannot be overstated. Find the activity that centers you and do it daily, and if needed, hourly!     

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Learn More About Emilie Elliott

Emilie Elliott was born to be a caretaker.  From age 8 when she brought home the stray dog from the bus stop to the guinea pig she taught to “squeak” when he was ready for food, Emilie has always cared.  She left college to marry and over the next five years had two sons and a daughter.

As a military wife, she became licensed to operate a home daycare and continued her calling of care for another 4 years.  Life took a turn and after divorcing she returned with her children to Tennessee.  She worked with the County government for over 10 years.  

Connect with Emilie Elliott

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Blog: https://www.confessionsofareluctantcaregiver.com/blog

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